21 years ouch! i told my husband he can divorce my ass if i ever stop for longer than a year
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the above post is one of the best ones. I honestly can say, I go in and out of feeling sexual( I am a woman) Like right now I do not want to have sex, I just don't. I have stress in my life right now which is likely what is happening and I blame for the lack of luster for my husband right now. IDK about 21 years though, I don't think ANYONE can go that long without sex, so both of you must have cheated, and if netiher one of you care about it then you likely don't feel IN love anymore and are staying for the friendship/ companionship. I am 27 yrs old, been with my husband since I was 18, I can see how this could happen to us, though I doubt I will not have sex for 21 years, I will get it somewhere else.
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I have experienced the same situation though not for as long. Mine still treats me to oral that is very wonderful and she is a generous and loving mate in all other ways. I hope yours is too.
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I know the feeling also.not even a bj
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Have you talked to her about it? Many women are oblivious that sex is to men what holding, touching and listening are to women. If you're giving her all her goodies and she's not returning the language of love, that's a BIG problem! But luckily, she's a woman, so maybe she would be open to at least an honest discussion.
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why would you marry a 15 year old?
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why would you marry a 15 year old?
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^1 up. I think the time frame was the last big depression, her family may have been poor and not able to feed all the kids. Many people got married early in those times. For the poster, I am sorry, you seem like a nice guy. You shouldn't have let it go on so long without confronting her. It is her duty.
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I am saddened by this. You have to respect her, but we all need human touch to survive. If nothing else, does she cuddle with you? Is she affectionate in other ways? If you don't get those things at minimum, go for professional (appropriate) massage. Its not sex and not perfect, but I promise it will help. I commend you both for your loyalty...
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at least not with you. she's having sex
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She isn't necessarily having sex.. she may have a physical problem that happened with the birthing of your children that causes her hormones to be screwed up. Take her to the Dr.
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Everyone is assuming it is her that does not want sex. Perhaps this gentleman has lost total interest due to the changes in her over the years. Just remember, life is short.
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Why is that?
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she doesn't love you anymore. my marriage wasn't a nice one.i couldn't stand having sex with my now ex.i fell out of love first. than no sex. he found someone else . had 2 kids by her.never treats this family as bad as he did us. i was beat black
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does your junk ever work anymore?
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You were 20 and she was 15? That's the first issue, you married WAY too young. That probably meant you were both not mature enough sexually to begin a marriage. It's not too late to get sex counseling.
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And of she stopped having sex with you when she was only 32, she was probably having an affair. Why did you not get counseling when it stopped?
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It's Me... She just turned 16 Iwas 19, After our first child she said that sex just didn't feel good, I hoped after the second child things would change, It didn't, she said she didn't know why she just doesn't like sex. Every single night I go to sleep in my own room by myself, I hate her so much I can't sleep. In the morning, I love her all over again. It's like when people date. They go out expecting to get some, if the don't, well maybe next time. I in a position that I have to put up or shut up. I don't want to be alone but I sure would like some intimacy.
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You need to find someone, she cannot blame you for leaving a sexless marriage
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It always amazing me that women will Compromise on doing the dishes, taking out the trash, and other unpleasant Chores, yet refuse to compromise with sex (something that feels Good), yet hey wonder why men cheat. I say hand her That argument and a bottle of lube and see what happens. Good luck! (BTW, i am a female.)
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dam dude! After nineteen years of no sex I'd would have to say enough.
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your hand must be sore .i'am suprised you can type.
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and that's the way it is
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maybe she pees herself when she is having sex and is embarrassed! this is the number one reason woman her age stop doing it....or you suck at it?
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I would have waited 21 days and then I would be sticking it to someone else!
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