That person may want to hear it. Tell them.
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you were a prick. dont you mean you are a prick. what ever you did you will do again.
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I can't tell her bc I don't want to mess up her life if she is happy, and I am scared that I am the way I am and wont change. A part of me wants another chance, but a part of me wants to not hurt her again.
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You're right, you probably would hurt her again. Perhaps the greatest act of love is to leave her alone since the likely hood of you changing are minimal.
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I love her so much, I forgot until I saw her the other day for the first time in a year. It hit me hard, she did not see me. This is so not like me to talk like this, but I want her.
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You should work on your self and get her back. Who knows she may feel the same way.
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^Good advice! Fix yourself first, then beg her forgiveness in person if you are sure you won't do it all over again. - Nikodemus
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It's more effective when it's not a secret post on this site.
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I booked the flight...
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She is probably like my wife! she needs a good whack!! they make you a prick when they don't do what they are told!
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^ Karma is a b****. What goes around comes around - YOU are a prick!- Nikodemus
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^ you wish you could have a prick! Porkchop!! Nikotard
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Do come back and tell us how it goes! The only thing that works in relationships..is TOTAL acceptance of that person..and not labeling them one way or the other. Once you can completely accept them as they are...it becomes easy because you aren't giving their ego the barriers and resistance "it" (meaning the human ego) needs to exist. Then..there is harmony. Most people are addicted to the drama...and the discord..which is only a mindgame/ego illusion. Total acceptance...of yourself...and the person who most strongly reflects love back to you... is a true love relationship. Anything else...is an ego trip.
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^$5 says we never hear from him again. :(
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I was horrible, I hurt her bc it was easier for me to deal with everything and I thought I would just move on like I always have. I know now how much I hurt her, and I am so scared of telling her how I feel bc even though I did it to her I cant bare the thought of her telling me that she no longer loves me. Selfish I know, I want to hold on to the feeling of knowing she does. I don't know if this is all worth the pain I would feel. I would need to go to NY bc that is where she has moved. I will think about it, this is the last comment I will write. Perhaps I will recieve some helpful advice from random strangers.
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Listen to the Book on CD "The Power of Now"..esp CD # 5. It talks about having a conscious relationship. Don't let amazing woman go. It sounds like she is bringing a great deal of awareness into your life. Relationships aren't meant to make us happy but conscious and aware. Clearly this is happening and you truly have love for her well being or you wouldn't think this way. You are further along in your growth then you realize.
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^ Wow! There are some truly insightful and sensitive people here for a change. Good luck to you boy. Maybe this is the this is the difficulty that didn't kill you but made you stronger. Children are selfifish, healthy adults learn to be generous, have you. Go find her and at least make the attempt. It's a decision not a accident.- Nikodemus
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^i think there always is when the post is worth it.
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ok baby I forgive you. call me right now. I feel the same and have been waiting for you to express these feelings for me.
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I know I said I wouldn't comment anymore, I just wanted to say thank you for all of the amazing posts.
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