As a dad I can tell you that he loves you UNCONDITIONALLY. Being raped is not desecration, it's violation. You are not denigrated in any way. He will love you and want to destroy whomever did this to you. You are not at fault, you are not sullied in any way. You are an innocent. Love yourself.
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you didnt do anything wrong.whoever did this will get what they deserve.
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desecrated?
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You're not any different. He still loves you. You'll be okay, hang in there...
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he is your dad...he'll kill whoever raped you, it's his job.
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Seriously, what sort of parents raise a child to beleive that if they are raped, they are desecrated? Gotta love religion... anyway, um, did it ever occur to you that perhaps if your Dad would view you as desecrated for being raped, that maybe he isn't such a great dad? Forget about pleasing your dad and get some help ofr yourself. Go to a rape crisis center and get some counseling.
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Your Dad is there to love and help you. Let him do his job.
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may god bless you.
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If you were my child. I would kill the bastard. And then let you know it's not your fault.
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You can look him in the eyes because it was not your fault....you did nothing wrong....you were abused by a scumbag, and your father knows this.
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My daughter was raped, and it hasn't had one iota of impact on how much I love her.
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He won't see you as desecrated, sweetie. Please don't think of yourself that way. This was not your fault, and you did not deserve it, and you have nothing to be ashamed of. Be well. (((((((hugs)))))))
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I know in some cultures women and young girls have been shunned and killed over things like this. It's SICK and horrible but hopefully your Dad will do the right and loving thing and stand by you reguardless of your virginity! It's not like you gave it away! It was taken from you. Hopefully your Dad will understand that and direct his anger towards the ass that abused you.
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He's going to wonder how he can look into your eyes knowing that he didn't manage to protect you :(
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^1 up is completely right. He is scared too.
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Oh my god! its not your fault
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listen i'm a dad i have three girls and three boys,i'd hope my daughters would tell me about something if that happened to either of them .i love them no matter what .Go to your dad for comfort,he'll be there for you if he's a good dad which i hope he is .take care hope your doing well.
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