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I had to many std's as a teen now I can not have children I never told my husband and thats his all time dream for us to be a family

I had to many std's as a teen now I can not have children I never told my husband and thats his all time dream for us to be a family

 
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You knew this when he proposed? That is pretty rotton.
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its time to come clean...
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Kids aren't all they are cracked up to be. Appreciate the time the two of you have without the distractions.
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I acquired 1 std as a teenager and didn't know it. By the time I found out I was told that I couldn't have children either. My almost 3 year old daughter is playing in the next room. Never say never.
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So adopt! There are a lotta little cumb eaters out there who need loving homes! At least you will be parents because you WANT a child and are planning for one!
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It could be worlds worse- I slept with one guy. Who cheated. Who gave me 3 std's. The man I'm with now knows. Two of the std's were curable. One was not. He knows there's a 75% chance I'm sterile. He believes it's worth the risk. If you are a good person, good things happen.
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I WAS NOT A SLUT TO BE CLEAR JUST A STUPID GIRL LOOKING FOR LOVE BECAUSE I HAD NO FATHER BUT THE GUY WAS JUST LIKE HIS SORRY AS JUST USED ME !!!! THATS A ADD ON FOR YA
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You are a family. But if you want children, there's always adoption. You really should come clean now, lying to your spouse is never a good thing.
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There are many precious babies waiting for adoption.
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my gosh you were a whore!
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Well you aren't a "whore" because you had STD's, so don't listen to those comments. It seems a little unfair to him because if knew you couldn't have kids that may have been a factor in his decision on whether or not to marry you. Some men are really set on spreading their DNA. That being said, neither one of you need to be deprived of the benefits of having children- there are other ways (adoption). And, you may as well try to have kids yourself- it can't hurt to try unless you're in an uncomfortable position! Good luck to you.
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Wow! Another example for all those men that can't seem to understand why they are divorced or that their marriage sucks. Men only marry selfish skanky hoes anymore... and I thought it was because they got knocked up! Count your blessings little hoe! Your bills are paid, and you have what you always wanted... someone to treat like crap!
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tell him you stupid b**** it will only get worse i marred a woman that had her tubes tied she never told me i wanted kids early in life i had i found a woman now i have 2 kids 13 yo an 9 i am 42 tell him if he loves you he will stay
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This is grounds for annulment.
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