yeah don't do it, it's gunna burn you more than you can imagine. It will stay with you forever.
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leave him
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If he really cared I bet he wouldn't have you do something you are completly uncomfortable with.
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Talk to him. Tell him you changed your mind. Don't feel like you have to do it to keep him. Maybe he isn't the right guy for you.
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its not going to workout in the end. and when its all over it will be you that was the weak and used up one. boy i bet you'll feel really good about yourself then.
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Threesomes are hot but it lasts for the moment only. It kills you later. BTW, I'm the guy....
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hey, say hello to your bf's new gf.
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Don't do it. Why would you voluntarily do something with the knowledge that your heart will break? And more importantly, why would you do it just to keep someone who would ask you to compromise your heart for a thrill? You are better than that--so prove it...to him and to yourself!
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then don't do it!!!! don't you have a mouth and mind of your own? Speak up before it is too late, and then dump his ass if he doesn't like it. Don't do this to yourself. Trust me, this NEVER works out well if any of the three has any doubt or reluctance at all.
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I know 2 couples who did that, the guy wanted a threesome and the girl was reluctant. They did it anyway it got weird both couples broke up. One wife left with the husband's best friend and the other girl became a lesbian for awhile ....don't do it.
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You deserve to be happy. If you go through with it, your relationship will forever be changed. Is he worth your unhappiness?
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if you want the mental image of your BF f***ing another chick for the rest of your relationship, go for it.
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If you do it... your relationSHIT is over.
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DON'T DO IT.
You will regret it forever.
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remember that if you do it once he will be more inclined to ask for more. Could you handle it if he asked for more?
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sex with a person you don't love is heartless and cruel.
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I', the OP...he says he'll be open to me and another guy with him too. I had to ask to get the response. Now I'm more confused than ever. I expected a "NO" from him.
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fricken women. Always saying they'll try it but really not meaning it. thats why relationships are screwed up. Say what you mean or suck it up,grab a gear and drive on.
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I would never ask my girl for a threesome; it's like asking her if it's o.k. to cheat on her. Plus, I would really have to have no respect for her. Sounds like a loser, bolt!
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my husband and I flirt with the idea of a threesome, we both want one but then we don't. I am more the no person, and he understands, I rock his world all by myself in the mean time. I tell him not yet baby, I'm not there yet, but maybe in the future. I have a great husband, Try your bf out maybe he will understand and if he doesn't then oh well...leave?! I guess. He will have sex with another if you dont give him what he wants.
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Don't do shit you don't want to do just to impress some guy
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your boyfriend is only thinking of himself! hes a selfish bastard who puts his wants and needs first!hes not even considering how you feel is he? tell him you want to see him have sex with a guy and see what he says!!!
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If you know the other guy and like him, give it a try. If you have not met the other guy yet or if you do not like him - don't do it!
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If you are mature enough every thing will be alright. My wife and I have three somes pretty regularly. We include another man. She is now to the point that she admits loveing it. And she even has suggested adding one more men. Just enter it with an open mind.
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It starts with the boyfriend saying the threesome will be a 'one time thing.' Then he starts saying the threesome was so great and now just being alone with you doesn't do it for him anymore- so he wants another threesome, and another... and eventually the other girl develops real feelings for the guy and they start seeing each other without you. Take it from someone who knows....
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i don't think that he is a slimeball for asking you too.. if you don't want to say so... then he will know. if you agreed he thinks that you are into it and he doesn't know that you don't want to. it is up to you to stand up for what you feel and tell him, otherwise you have no right to get mad at him. i highly doubt that he told you that you need to have a threesome with him or he is leaving you...
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The idiot above me is full of it. A threesome is potentially a great thing for a relationship, IF ALL PARTIES AGREE AND ARE COMFORTABLE. The poster is obviously not comfortable with it and is on here admitting it's only going to damage the relationship. I'm a guy and I can't imagine bringing another woman in with me and my girlfriend. If I did I'd feel like scum and filthy and I know for a fact I'd never get over it. Maybe some people can deal with it and some love it, but not all of us are like that. And nobody is judging anyone. We're saying based on the post, they will obviously regret the decision and be hurt by it. Why would you encourage this with that knowledge? Spreading your legs isn't all there is to life. Close off the whore part of your mind for 5 seconds and consider what a normal person would feel.
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All of you putting down her boyfriend need to STFU unless you have more info than the rest of us? He might not even know she is against the idea. She could easily be one of those girls that lies to her guy about how "ok" she is with things.
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tell him you will agree to a threesome with another women but then he has to have a threesome with another guy and see how he would like that ?
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If your not comfortable then don't do it. My wife and I are in the swingers lifestyle and have had many 3somes but only if all parties agree, you have to be able to communicate.
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never ,never,do anything your uncomfortable with especially when it comes to something as personal as sex,let your boyfriend know how you feel about this,and if he loves you,he will understand,if not then hes using you!!!
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I understand why are you considering it- I am with a guy and have thought that he wants to have one too. He has in the past. I told him that if I would I would be just like the others he was with. I am just not that girl - trust your instincts...
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If your not comfortable with it then DON'T. Its your life to live, not his or anyone elses.
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If you aren't doing it for you, don't do it at all.
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