You have plenty of time to decide what is right, but at fourteen your hormones are raging, and the media today makes it so easy to think you could be, but give it some thought! Like the first post said be true to yourself, but keep this in mind, If you are living like there is no heaven or hell, and God doesn't exist you better hope your right!!!
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Third and second comment...
Who are you to say whether God exists or not? Why is it so bad for one woman to love another woman? Why is it that you can be cast into "Hell" for it? And what would be a gay person's hell anyway? being surrounded by strait people I guess lol.
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I say be who you are. And don't worry about what others say. I do not have a single gay friend who chose to be gay they were born that way and the only one who can send you to hell is God. Judge not lest ye be judged people
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wow, that's really inspirational.
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I know what you are going through!I'm a lesbian trapped in a mans body!!!!!!!!!
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Lick some pussy and find out . If you are turned on question answerd if not try it agian anyways
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Your young, there is no hurry. Don't worry about what people think, be what ever makes you happy. Good, bad, right, wrong is all subjective, everyone has their own ideas, but in the end be true to yourself.
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I am a professional working psychologist. Wait till you get to be 18, then send me some video of your lesbian experiences, I will give you my professional opinion
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The longest post above probably said it best: Keep your options open, and your emotions and responses real. Jeeze, if I were a 14 year old girl, the prospect of letting a boy that age near me would turn me away for sure, but maybe not when you are a bit older. When you are fully a woman, things may change for you. Please, ignore the hate. The God I worship made us how we are. To say don't be this way or that way to our Creator makes no sense. I wish for you only love and understanding. There are certainly far worse things in life than two girls in love. Like maybe a room full of frustrated haters. Now there's my vision of hell.
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god is unisex if he or she exsist (i think so ) be true to yourself. and age has nothing to do with it. >live> love> laugh.
enuff said!
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Stop living in fear of what others think.
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I don't understand why some of the people who left comments on here somehow equate being a lesbian with being promiscuous. She said she might have crushes on girls. How is that implying that she's rushing out to bang somebody? Ridiculous.
Have fun, be 14, do what's natural for you, and don't EVER let anyone make you feel bad about your feelings. Love is wonderful, no matter who you love. :)
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God made Adam and He made Eve. He made one a woman and the other, a man. He made you also and He don't make mistakes. This is a spirit filled world and a lot of evil. What your feeling is confusion. Tell the spirit that has a hold on you to leave. If you give into it, You will become what ever it leads you to become.
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when I was a teenager I had strong feelings for girls that I never thought much about because I didn't have everyone around me telling me it might be lesbianism. They went away. Later in life I realized I was never a lesbian whatsoever.
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i'm sorry, but Christianity is one shitty religion. This is a big issue for this girl and this space should be devoted strictly to her needs--not turned into a platform for your STUPID religious crap. Talk about disrespect!
To the girl: You probably know all of this stuff anyway, but:
Hey, what an exciting time in your life! This is one of the BEST, so don't let anyone SPOIL it for you! Have fun! You're just beginning to explore your sexuality. Be CURIOUS and ADVENTUROUS to find out who you are!
Rest assured, there's NO place for shame or guilt here. You're simply moving away from being a little girl and becoming a woman, and your sexuality is starting to wake up. And guess what? It's totally normal to be attracted to the same sex! You're NORMAL! Lesbianism may prove to be your permanent sexual orientation, but most likely it's just a PHASE--9 out of 10 girls end up heterosexual. But whichever way you end up, you're still YOU! A BEAUTIFUL human being--who also happens to be a lesbian. Or not.
I recommend TALKING to a trusted friend or maybe even one of your parents, if they're cool. Talking stuff out with others is a good thing. And remember to ask your heart! What do YOU think? And give yourself time to figure out your sexuality. No need to RUSH! By the end of the school year you'll probably have it all settled. So NO worries! It's such an AMAZING time for you--I hope you make the MOST of it!
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thank you so much, you are very kind.
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At 14 you should be thinking about school, friends and fun. Sex is not something you should be worrying about. There will be plenty of time for that!
It seems to me that being "gay" for a lot of people today is a fad, the "in" thing to do. Make sure you are not being led by the media. That "I kissed a girl" mentality is just phony as hell. Also keep in mind that lesbians sex acts can spread std's just like heterosexual sex. And who wants to get infected at 14 and have to live with that for the rest of thier life?
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^*facepalm*
OP, best I can recommend is to check around, see if there is anyone at your school you know swings that way, and is willing to help you experiment discreetly. Only way to know for sure is to try it.
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I wish I was a 14 year old lez. I can't think of more fun.
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im 13 and im a lesbian and all m y friends like me like they always did
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Lesbian, Bi, or straight, you are a human being and should be loved. Give yourself time to learn about yourself. And remember people like to hate and hurt, so find someone you are sure you can trust, if you need to talk. Peace
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Lesbian, Bi, or straight, you are a human being and should be loved. Give yourself time to learn about yourself. And remember people like to hate and hurt, so find someone you are sure you can trust, if you need to talk. Peace
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Love is Love.
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Its fine to be a lesbian don't worry about it.
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just because she thinks she is a lesbian doesnt mean she is thinking about sex! when i first started liking boys it was all about a crush. she is 14 people you dont need to talk to her about sex! Sweetheart, the people that you need will love you no matter what. you are 14 so if u need to talk to someone call boys town national hotline or something. its really hard to trust people your age to keep a secret. good luck!
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I think you're too young to decide one way or the other. I think that young people shouldn't be condemned for experimenting, and I also think that you shouldn't decide right away that you're a lesbian. You've got years to grow out of it so why slam the door on being a healthy heterosexual.
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God loves you
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I always knew i was gay. I did "guy things" - I played sports and had sex with girls, and I hoped that would "make it go away", but it didn't. Just "follow your nose", and don't listen to the haters! peace.
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