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Happly married but sexually frustrated, not enought sex,we love each other but she doesn't think sex is important, I do, don't know what to do tired of jacking

Happly married but sexually frustrated, not enought sex,we love each other but she doesn't think sex is important, I do, don't know what to do tired of jacking

 
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Talk to her about it in a serious but gentle manner. If she does nothing, talk with a counselor...if she still does nothing, ask her whether she'd prefer an affair or a divorce. But give her every fair opportunity before that point, please.
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^^well said.
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I am in the same situation but I'm the wife. I feel for you. It really sucks!
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Been there, done that. Got over it. Talk!!!!
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Everyone I know who is married has that same issue. One doesn't want it as much, the other does. One doesn't even care about sex and the other cares too much.. Where's the happy medium? I guess if the sexaholics were married to other sexaholics, nothing would get done in this world and there's be way too many kids... lol
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Do you act like a child in your behavior? Play games at every opportunity? Collect the same junk you have had since childhood? Throw hissy fits like a 2 year old? It's just not attractive.
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hes either dirty, has a disease, or treats her like shit... thats the only reason I can give for her not wantin sex...unless shes just a str8 up cunt.. whatever.. talk to her and figure it out.. dont be a pussy ass b**** and go get it elsewhere when you cant even deal with the one you got!
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perhaps there are other circumstances involved...or maybe she just doesn't really like you that way.
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She enjoys sex right? Maybe she is just so stressed it's harder for her to get in that mode. Take a break, dote on her one night, clear the datebook, send the kids to grandmas, give her a back rub, run a bubble bath and enjoy the outcome.
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I am the poster and the first one was good, thank you, to some of the other replys, I am not black, I do not want to cheat because I love my wife, we just got done talking about it and we both feel the same way but we were to afraid to piss the other one off because we do not like to fight, as to the comments about disease,no I don't, being dirty,shower every day, I have a 8 inch cock,so not small, sex was great for the first 15 years, I treat her like a queen, so she says, I don't even ask her to work if she does not want to, for all you people that took this serriously thanks, for all the poeple that can only bring themselves up by slamming other people or putting them down, you suck, get a life, go f~~k yourself because you probably do not have anyone else to do it for you
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Talking is always the key. No anger, no threats, no accusations. Start every sentence with "I feel" or "This makes me feel" or You make me feel" If you love each other enough you can work anything out. You must be in 7th heaven right now if you both feel the same about this problem... now get imaginative with your sex life and I think/hope you drive each other crazy Good Luck! Glad to hear a wonderful outcome even if the haters try to make it ugly.
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Lat poster thank you, and isn;t it funny that after I posted a reply to all the ugly postings that they just stopped being to stupid, You can't get put down if you do not let yourself get put down, my life is good, sorry all you people that life sucks for and thank you to all the people the helped
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You knew this before you married her, so either accept it, dump her or get it on the side.
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Weak minds succumb, the strong carry on.
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Ugg. In same situation. I dont want to cheat. Really really have a great marriage. Its tough
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Why didn't you ask her how she felt before you married her? If she didn't f*** you when you were courting what did you expect after you got married. My wife said she felt this way "after" we got married. I divorced her selfish ass.
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let her see you with a man lol
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I haven't f***ed my man in three months, his breath stinks and he think Axe bodyspray is good enough. Also, he treats me less than by never listening to me, helping with our daughter, or cleaning up some. He jumps jobs since I have known him and then lectures me about spending money. Who spends $100 a week for a family of four? Not just food, everything from laundry soap to diapers. He won't let me get a job to help out, it'd cost more for childcare than it's worth. He moves me way out in BFE, promising that I can drive the 70 miles whenever I want to see my family. He never fixes my car to drive. I hate guns. He bought 2 of them and got certified to train through the NRA to train people to get their CCW permits. He throws a fit when I don't listen to his endless talks about dye sets, ranges, and targets. I hate him. Why would I f*** him? I wish he would go f*** someone else and let me not know about it. I won't leave him, I love our daughter too much.
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welcome to the club brother, mines just about missing all its skin and is tied in knots
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lmao...i'm a woman ,married and i havent had sex in a few years. He is punishing me for something i guess but i quit fighting about it. i watch alot of porn!
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lmao...i'm a woman ,married and i havent had sex in a few years. He is punishing me for something i guess but i quit fighting about it. i watch alot of porn! <<======== Strop watching it and start making it ... discreetly ;-)
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If someone else is f***ing her, then I don't have to
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Try improving your sentence structure, grammar and punctuation.
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