Why didn't you report him?
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Thing is they dont feel any guilt at all. I know my sisters dad has never felt guilty. Even in prison he told a distant relative that me and my sisters liked it and begged for it. I Was Only 3 years old when he started molesting me! Oh and he was in prison for molesting his wives daughters son who was his son! Yes this is true he molested his step daughter and got her pregnant and then molested the little boy.... No remorse ever! He needs to suffer a long painful death!
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I understand completely. I've been there, too. No matter what modern psychobabble and religion would have us believe, sometimes it's perfectly okay, not to forgive someone. Sometimimes it's healthier to NOT forgive and forget. I wish you peace and healing. Bless you.
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Let it go.. take it from someone that is in the same shoes... let it go.. because as long as you don't you give him power to make you angry in your life.. it's your life.. take it back and let the anger go... you are now destroying your life worse then he did. He is not worth the time of day forget him and move on....
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I too was molested as a little girl, as were all 3 of my sisters. Each of us has our own way of coping with such a monstrosity of a crime. I personally believe in Karma, that what goes around comes around, and I place all of my anger and resentment towards that man with Karma... it lets me live my life w/o the anger and without feeling like a constant victim... who wants that?
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I wasraped by my father for years, my mother stood by out of fear. I have found out that by forgiving them I set my own mind at peace. Like I said I can forgive but never forget. Its a love/hate thing.
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It's easy to Forgive,but it takes a Lifetime to Forget
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You must forgive in order to heal. Its for your benefit that you forgive, not his.
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i'm a mother of two daughters who have been there and the first step to healing is forgivness, it's also the first step to getting past it. they are happy,thriving and in healthy relationships with wonderful young men. that wouldn't of happened if not for forgivness.
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hell burn in hell
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Forgiving is not easy, and you dont have to forgive, but you do have to get past it. Do not the past run your life.
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You owe him NOTHING..Now you have control over your own life..Do whatever makes YOU feel better.
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You are not alone. My brothers and sister and I were also abused. Our past may have made us, but it does not define us. Find happiness, and let the abusers burn in hell.
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I know it's hard to deal with the awful memory of being violated. However, you only suffer more when you keep yourself in the prison of unforgiveness. You may never forget, but you can forgive. Releasing your pain will give you more freedom than you've ever known. I was a victim of abuse too, but I've chosen to forgive my abuser even though they don't deserve it, and I am finally free.
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For the first poster on this, I was 5 and didn't know how to. I didn't find out until it was too late.
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KILL THE MOTHER FUCKER
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