Why don't you work on recreating how it used to be by rediscovering the person you once were? No one's making you fat and sexless. You're choosing to be that way. That's what makes the sad reminiscent porn kind of pathetic...you can be that stud again if you choose to. And who knows, you could inspire your wife to make positive changes, too. OR you could just stay fat and miserable and have each hour of porn make you feel even lower. That, too, is up to you.
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Getting old is a b****. Getting fat is avoidable. Sex is what we make it. Sounds like you just gave up on life. RIP!
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Have a talk w/her about what's going on w/you. See a sex therapist. Diet together. Take mini vacations on weekends...no sex, just enjoy each others company again. Be affectionate w/o sex. Spend time w/other couples you enjoy. Gradually work your way back into the bedroom. No one says it has to be the fireworks it once was. Just appreciate
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Porn is a sad way to relive your relationship, you are addicted now and your life with your wife looks boring and unattractive after you look at that shit on the computer. It is not real, it hurts relationships and probably makes your wife feel ugly and unattractive too. You are basically cheating on her by looking at those things and are probably comparing her to a bunch of whores who have fake everythings. Be a real man and treat your wife like she should be treated.
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