Get out as soon as possible sweety, no one deserves that. It could become dangerous and you dont need to get seriously hurt.
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well I wouldn't say cheat, but you DO need to get out! This guy is a worthless prick and you CAN do better! Save yourself and protect your kids if you have any, because they'll be next.
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My heart goes out to you... Yes it is hard to leave, but it is possible. Please don't wait. Make a plan and GO! :)
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GET OUT ASAP. If I knew who it was I'd turn the tables on him.
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Cheating may make it worse for you, IF he finds out. Either way, GET OUT. And another thing...his family are a bunch of heartless cowards for knowing this and not doing anything.
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I WISH YOU'D TAKE THE ADVICE, DO YOU THINK YOU CAN'T DO BETTER? YOU HAVE NO SUPPORT SYSTEM FROM HIS FAMILY, YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS? IF HE EVER GOES TO THE POINT OF KILLING YOU, THEY'LL HELP HIM COVER UP HIS CRIME AS THEY HAVE BEEN DOING SO FAR. LEAVE YOU OWE IT TO YOURSELF
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hire a couple of guys to work him over and when he gets out of the hospital leave his sorry ass!
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hay babe.
been their, and everytime he lost it he hurt me more than the time before. been out of it for about 6 months, still miss him more than i can ever say, but im not scared anymore. you can do it darling
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Please just leave. I know that it is hard to do, I have done it. You are going to be scared, feel alone and lost, and have to start all over again. But you will never feel more alone than you do after you have been beaten, surrounded by his family pretending that they do not see. You may be dependent on him for everything, my ex never wanted me to work, so I had to go back to school and start from scratch with a child...but I am now so proud of myself, and I feel strong for the first time in my life. I deserved it, as did my child. JUST LIKE YOU DO. You deserve a life of freedom and happiness, Good Luck, you can do it!
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RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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HE SOUNDS LIKE THE TYPE OF PERSON THAT SHOULDN'T BE BREATHING EVERYONE ELSE'S AIR , PEOPLE LIKE HIM JUST DON'T REALLY NEED TO EXIST!
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LEAVE HIS ASS!!!
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do one thing for your self,i get the feeling that you are a beautiful person and you don't need to live in fear every day of your life! PLEASE take your self out of harms way. God Bless!
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I have a secret for you... LEAVE!!!!
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If you need help getting out look up CASDA, they can help you get out of the situation, file for divorce, and get you some legal protection, like a restraining order.GL
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And why are you staying in that relationship?
GET OUT!
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Get out. It will be the hardest thing to do. I was in the same situation with his family being ok with it. It was the hardest thing I ever did but the most rewarding. You can do it.
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LEAVE
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Look, you push him to it, it's YOUR fault. And give the poor guy a break, he's under a lot of stress. And never leave him - he'll change if you give him the chance. Sound familiar? Hope you enjoy playing the victim, cos that's exactly what you're doing. Sorry to be harsh, but I think you know it's true.
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It's scary enough to be with a man who punches walls! I know this because I have seen the look in my wife's eyes as my fist went through the wall/door/window. It took a lot of time and hard work to learn to stay calm and take a time out to write out my feelings. The only thing your guy should hit is the road. Love yourself first! Only then can you be able to give love to someone else. P.S. You have beautiful eyes the only color around them should be make up! Keep your head up! Much love!
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give me his name and address i will make you this promise ..he will never again raise a hand to you for as long as he walks this earth...
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everyone is telling you what you already know. Love or not - sometimes people hurt those who they love the most. It's not right - it's not fair. Make a plan and get away.
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Please get away from him, You deserve better.
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If you stay then YOU are the problem.
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PLEASE get out now. There are places and programs that will help you. I left and went back and was beaten to within inches of my life. I left town and started a new life in a new town with NOTHING I had a place to stay in a shelter and they got me a apartment (the first I ever had of my own) and My life is so much better I still however live with the reminders even though it has been 25 years i still ache every time it starts to rain or get cold i feel each and every broken bone he ever gave me. Google battered woman shelters and LEAVE NOW!!!! PLEASE You do NOT deserve this No one does. My life is so much better now. i hear he had a new woman She too ended up beaten really badly he went to jail. He will not be out for a LONG time.
You can have a better life Honest you can.
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Get out any way you can. Sometimes it is scary especially if you don't know where to go or have any money or have children. Go to the Red Cross or a church or anywhere you can find help. It will only get worse. Voice of dumb experience here. I wasted many years before I smarted up!
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Leave him. Skip out sometime when he is gone. have a plan, know what you are going to take with, have a palce to go where he doesn't have a clue where it is. Make the break. If you can;t and he hurts you either go to a shelter or get the law involved. One thing about the law, it is hell for both of you. Just get out, go away. Sorry that it is you that has to leave but that would be the safe thing to do.
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Hill him in his sleep.....
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I mean Kill... Sorry...
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who's doing this to you? I'll make sure it never happens again. mysteryflavory@yahoo.com
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The first step is the hardest....it gets easier the every day you're not being abused.
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Real men cherish their women not beat them just tell who he is and what town he lives in and the rest will take care of it's self
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My sis was in an abusive relationship for years.He finally left her and she was devastated.I still don't understand it.
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This girl has problems, she will go from abusive relationship to abusive relationship one after another. Her life won't get better until she changes the neural pathways that are etched in her brain. How do I know? Because she would already be gone if it wasn't the case.
Should she get out of this one? Sure. However until she changes at her inner self the results she gets in relationships will remain the same.
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Hate will not save you you have to get OUT NOW,the next time maybe the last think about it Please get out f--ckers like that need their ass beat big time Just remember your better then that no lady should live like that
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ur the one whos stupid for NOT LEAVING!!
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He's made you think you don't deserve any better..but you do. There is better out there..way better. One day he will cry over losing you..there is no better feeling.
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burn down their family
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I was once in an abusive relationship with 2 kids and what seemed like no way out..you got to make up your mind and leave..it will keep happening no matter how many times you get told otherwise..and I have a brother that Im positive is hitting his wife but, there is nothing I can do..she wont leave him and if I stir the pot I wont see her or my nieces and nephews again..or worse, he may hit her more for finding out she told me! Not to sound too rude but, if you dont like his family or his abuse get out! There are shelters for battered women that would take you in and help you.
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Ma'am I am a police officer, and I have to be honest with you, there are a lot of women around this country that die every day from domestic violence, because their husband took it too far. My advice to you is to get out of this relationship as soon as possible, because one of these days he might take it too far, and then you might not get out of it. There are better people in this world then this asshole. If you can't find the strength to get out, or if you're scared of him retaliating, you can get help. Your local police department or sheriff's department can help you, or at the least they can provide you with information on where to go or who to talk to. One place to start is with the underground railroad. Their toll free number is: 1-888-399-8385. I wish you all the luck in the world, and remember that you have family to support you.
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hun im sorry for what he does u deserve so much more i watched my father do the same to my mother leave him theres alot of men that will treat u so much better
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DUMP HIM!!!!
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I wish I knew you.I would give you a safe place to stay and also the love you deserve.I always wonder why these assholes have a woman who they treat like this and I'm alone.
I would love to have someone like you to love and I would treat you like a queen.You deserve no less than that...
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I've been physically, verbally, mentally, and emotionally abused for 6 months. It felt like 6 years.
Please do not put yourself to a hole where no one else could hear you.
I know it's very very difficult to just turn around and never look back. If I was able to do it, you could to.
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Kick him in the sack till he pukes blood then leave his useless ass
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Do you not have brothers? I know you have a father. Tell them. If any man ever dared to hurt my daughter I promise you she would be back safe with me and he would be in the hospital for a long, long time. I'm no tough guy but I do own a baseball bat.
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Jesus some of you people are heartless assholes - you really think it's helpful to demoralize someone that way?
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TELL ME WHO HE IS AND I WILL FIX IT.NO QUESTIONS JUST AN NAME.
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Get out of that relationship! Run for your life or you will end up a statistic!
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Maybe you drive him nuts...?
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You can get out, you just have to reach outto those who want to help you. I have bene in that same situation. God Bless!
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Every time he hits you, and you stay with him YOU are telling him that it is no big deal, and you are giving him permission to do it again (Because you stayed). When YOU BELIEVE that you no longer deserve to be hit, you will leave.
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ADVICE: GET OUT NOW! NOBODY DESERVES TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO HITS THEM. IT IS UNACCEPTABLE
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Then leave him...dumb ass. I get so sick of hearing about situations like this. get some balls and self-esteem!
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If you stick around and take it, you have a problem as much as he.
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bobndmel@yahoo.com email me Ill find you help
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www.tubmanfamilyalliance.org
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FInd one of the many groups that help situations like yours. You both need help, but you need to get well away safely. No person needs to life with the pain, fear and humiliation. Oh, and that guy above who wants his name? Hey, I'd go along on that trip. You are far from alone in this.
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He lies to you, each time he tells you he loves you, each time he says he wont do it again, he will always lie to you, they wont ever help you because he probably lies to them as well.......you can do it, you can leave, you can live again and breath and not be hit. dont stay 13 years like i did, do now, be strong hugzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
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Stay and end up on the evening news as another statistic.
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It's your fault as long as you stay with him. Or do you actually thrive on it? Hmmm...
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Just Leave. Take what you need..litterally. Children,a few cloths,needed medication and just go. Call the Dmoestic Hotline and they will help you. It will NVER get better. If you have children your teaching them this is okay, but you could be dead. Just leave asap. good Luck.
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it take a soorry --------man to hit a womenthe only reason men hit women is because there are scared to hit a man
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Real men never lay a hand on a woman out of anger. I've seen way too many women go through this because they're afraid to leave, but you should be afraid to stay, and it will only get worse. Get out of that situation before it's too late. You owe it to yourself and those that do care.
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if you dont leave then i hope he beats the crap out of you. I mean really, if you arent smart enough to leave then you get what you deserve
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The first hit is on him...the second hit is on the women who sticks around for it.
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Any man that hits a woman does NOT love her.If you were my daughter I'd be there now and take you away and press charges against him.He's a criminal.Too often these situations end up with the woman seriously injured or dead.Check the yellow pages,call a local womens center,call the local police but please get out of there before you are unable to!
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come on now. Get the hell away from this a** ****. Don't be sucked into a cycle that you are allowing to happen which eventually makes you responsible for it. don't mean to be harsh but it's your life, you can change it.
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One day, should you be lucky enough to survive this, you will get that chance to get out, hopefully without too many emotional and physical scars. Shame on his family for not encouraging you to set yourself free.
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After reading all the comments (ignore the idiot comments) everyone is saying LEAVE. These are educated people telling you this and they know its just a matter of time. You posted, you know what to do, you have all of our support, so just do it. Life will be better. Send the message that you will not put up with this. It will not change.
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Do a better job cleaning the dishes, will save you a lot of pain.
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I bet you are a hit a parties.
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STAB THAT MOTHERFUCKER IN THE HEART OR QUIT WHINNING
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your a pretty gal, first, cut off his balls shove them in his mouth an watch him bleed to death.
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Someone who loves you don't hit you
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my ex fiance tried to kill me one night, it was 30 min of him choking me and me trying to get away. some how i managed to get away and i ran to my cousins all the way across town. the next day i made some calls. his family still calls me to this day and asks me where he might be, i tell them i dont know but every weekend i spit on the pile of dirt hes buried under.Tezrian
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