I was the same, and I had several affairs, and was getting a divorce. I told my husband what I did, and we worked it out. Sometimes I feel guilty, sometimes I don't..... and sometimes I have to fight the urge to not do it again.
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I do this too. It's all about loving yourself.
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my recent ex is the same way i love her soo much and i think different of what others think of her. but she still goes out. imissher
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have an open discussion about this with your partner..
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One up is right. I talked about it with my husband. I even confessed to cheating. He loves me anyway. And I am happy now.....happier than I ever thought possible.
Be brave.
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I'd love some kind of definitive response on this issue, because it's plagued every relationship I've been in. Nearly all of my ex's cheated for this exact reason and I blamed myself for so long for not being enough for them and it's embittered me quite a bit. It's nothing but self-destruction and worst of all you're hurting someone else in the process, who probably did nothing to deserve it. Best of luck.
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People mistakenly think happiness and love can be found in another. If you don't love yourself, like the 1st poster says, a million super hot chicks/studs, all the money in the world and everything you could ever want will turn into complete shit. Always, and again and again until you die.
Look inside for what you seek. Until then, people will just treat you the way they see you treat yourself- like garbage. That is THE definitive truth, above poster!
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its not u....society trains u 2 KEEP SEARCHING
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I'm the same way. 3 marriages to great people and I keep screwing it up.
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Im the same way. Im never completely happy or get enough affection or attention in a relationship and feel I need to keep look for more somewhere else. its my problem and how I dont honor myself like I should. I guess I need to reread the Artez book, The Four Agreements...
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so im the OP.. and the thing is my partner isnt IN LOVE with me.. he loves me, we havea son but he isnt IN LOVE with me so i feel like i am not geting the love i need.. and the love i deserve..
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you sound like my ex... and she cheated... you need to see some one about that before you destroy your marriage and someone else's life too.
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the op: thats me! but i have done all that..were not married..it started out f*** buddies and then we got pregnant and ended up moving in together the day my son was born and now hes three and we are doing great other than that..
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What a CUM BUCKET! Grow up and keep your legs closed!
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OP: MY LEGS ARE CLOSED DUMB f***.. I HAVENT CHEATED.. I JUST WANT ATTENTION THAT HE DONT GIVE ME.. IVE NEVER EVER CHEATED ON HIM...
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I guess your dreams didn't work out the way you thought they would. Lots of men and women alike make poor choices of mates. It DOES seem that women make bad choices more often, though. Geeks often make great husbands!
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1 word.. HORNDOG
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