The very fact that you're concerned shows that you have compassion and love. Your child will respond to whatever level of love you show. Cherish every moment; trust me, they go all too quickly.
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Its simple to show your child. Accept, Acknowledge, and Appreciate your child...regularly. This is love in action.
My father has never once said "I love you". But he has done those three simple things my whole life. The words were never needed... I've never felt more loved or validated. It's all in the showing...not in the words.
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You can show him how much you love him. Hug him, ride him on your back, take him to movies, tell him you love him. My next door neighbors child loves me for doing those things and we aren't even related. After her father died I befriended her mother and my own mother and I took care of her child while she was at work. You show affection and he or she will definitely love you.
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Be there and be fair. Show affection and you'll be fine.
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dont give him a reason to hate you.
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My father is an idiot but harboring hate for him would only burden me. Let it go man.
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You wish you could show love? My man= you can do anything tou want. I am an ex-marine and showing love for my children and wife come very easily. I am myself with them and not in combat mode. I tell the every day that I love them and I prove it every day. If som ebody calls me a whimp because of that, they are entitled to their opinion. If they need proof, I can supply that also. Love your kids and your wife with all you have because = they may BE all you have and it may be what you truly feel.
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I have been reading this site for a hour now. This post broke me down quicker then anything. This thought alone scares the hell out of me every day. Every morning when I look at my son I want to weep. The thought of me being a father like mine was almost makes me want to leave.
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Actions speak louder than words.
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hug him when he gets up in the morning, hug him when he leaves for school, hug him when he gets home, hug him before he goes to bed at night, tell him you love him every time you hug him, there, problem solved. Trust me. Do this for a month, every day and you will feel so much better you wont believe it!
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Your father blew it, but you haven't. Appreciate the beautiful gift you have been given, make sure he knows you love him and everything will be fine.
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