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im 30yr old,im just gettin flash backs of my father sexually abusing me at a very young age.i never told any 1 cause i had no memory of it til now,what do i do?

im 30yr old,im just gettin flash backs of my father sexually abusing me at a very young age.i never told any 1 cause i had no memory of it til now,what do i do?

 
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confront him?
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Set an appointment to speak to a counselor. I would also suggest confronting him, but that could cause you to get treated badly, since you only recently realized this. Go in to see a doctor.
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something are better left unsaid...
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Ignore the "unsaid" comment. Sexual abuse isn't typically something that just goes away. Seek help before this turns into a crisis.
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Go to a counselor, it will be ok, you can work through this with therapy. Good luck
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false memory
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I would not ignore this. Are there any grandchildren that he is around? If so, get them away!! Talk with a therapist. Is there a family member you could trust? What about hinting around to your mom? Usually a child molester has more than one victim. Be strong and God bless.
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some people will say anything for attention. or money. get a life and move on, if its even true.
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Ah have mha boys f*** his shit up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Something in your environment has triggered these flashbacks to occur now. Please, go see a therapist to discuss this. Traumatic memories can be repressed for years only to emerge due to some unconscious stimulus which triggers them.
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Definitely see a therapist as soon as possible. S/he will help you deal with these feelings in the healthiest possible way.
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I've seen myself being molested so many times it's haunting but have no memory of it actually happening. I got a counsoulor
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