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I am married and I just blew  a man I met on Craigslist. I love my wife why do I cheat on her with men

I am married and I just blew a man I met on Craigslist. I love my wife why do I cheat on her with men

 
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because you are gay- Talk with her- trust me she already knows.. I discovered after a few yrs of marriage that my now ex husband was gay but he wasn't ready to come out- we divorced. his family would not accept him so he remarried. i feel bad for him-
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There are so many judgemental retards on here. 1) Your wife probably knows about your desires anyway, just tell her and stop cheating. Its not fair to her that you are doing this w/o her knowledge. 2) Think about the percentage of men who like to watch 2 women... I would guess 50%... I would guess that the % is similar for women who like to watch men. In fact my personal experience has been exactly that - of the 4 serious girlfriends/spouse that Ive had, two of them were totally turned on by my bisexuality, and the other two were definitely NOT.
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If my husband cheated on me with another woman, he would be a single man, but if he cheated with another man, he would be a dead man. Which choice would most people make...just get out and don't tell the truth of that sin. Just say you aren't in love with her anymore.
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Plain and simple, cheating is wrong. Get help or get out of your marriage, but don't tell her what you did. It might make you feel better to say you want to be honest with her, but she will live with that the rest of her life. Go to a counselor and get it off your chest, but don't ruin her life anymore than you have to. Divorce will be hard enough, but she can get over that.
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Above poster several up who said ..........you have sucked one and probably would again, and that all men have done it at least once ...... I DEFINITELY don't believe all men have done it at least once as you posted. There is no way in hell my brothers or dad has....I'd like to see you say that to their face....there would be a fight, I am sure of it. They would kick your a$$.
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***********To the poster who said: there is *nothing* wrong with giving another guy a blow job. Im married and i'd have no problem with my husband doing that. its NOT an Above poster who wrote: affair it has NOTHING to do with love/cheating. Its strickly the SEX of it, and its the *thrill* of if *anyone EVER found out*. its harmless, UNLESS your uptight. THEN its a huge DEAL breaker. LOL************ Affair is exactly that "CHEATING". It's sick to cheat, especially with the same sex. I agree, there is no way to compete with that. But either way, it is wrong!!!
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me to
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Eww you nasty fuk
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My wife loves it and it is a turn on for her, she even picks them out for us, and I am not gay, just bisexual, for those of you that don't know, there is a difference, get her involved if you can,she might like to watch
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That whole thing is just wrong!!! Not to mention NASTY!!!
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Men are turned on when two women have "sex" if that's what you call it (not really), but when women think of two men together, it is definietly not a turn on, it sickens us for the most part. I agree with the above post, don't tell your wife it was another man, just let her believe it was a woman, and leave. At least she won't be haunted by that the rest of her life.
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Believe me, no self-respecting woman is going to be open-minded to her husband having sex with a man. Now she might be okay with it if her self-esteem is so low that she believes she doesn't deserve better. These are twisted individuals who need help. Just stop cheating and live your life right or walk away and never tell her that you cheated with a guy...just tell her you cheated and she needs to be tested. Why ruin her life?
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It doesn't mean that you don't love her, it just means that she is unable to completely fulfill your sexual desires. The cheating is wrong, but she might be more open to the idea than you think.
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there is nothing wrong with being bi-sexual. the bad thing is that you are cheating on the one you took vows with. if you truley loved your wife you would not even be able to put cheating on her into consideration.
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Because you are gay, why did you get married?
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There are so many cheating BISEXUAL men on Craigslist its pitiful. You are not gay, you are bisexual. And its sick - leave your wife, it's the nicest thing you could do for her. You are hooked!
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My only question is why are all the married men from Craigslist bottoms?
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My husband was also recently blown by a guy he met on Craigslist, he even video taped it for me. I think it's so hot! Tell your wife, or hint at it atleast, she might be into it. I had no idea I was until he brought it up. Make it something you can both enjoy!
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Thats nasty. Do you want to give your wife HIV? Sicko.
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This is wrong on so many levels.
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I too am a gay man married to a woman. I recently came out to her and the marriage is now over except for the finances. We're on the way to giving each other the freedom we both should have had from the beginning. Since you are already exploring your sexuality outside of the marriage, tell your wife and get some counselling for both of you. Some marriages do survive this. Others don't, but you need to be honest with yourself and with her.
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To the above, you are thinking wrong.
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im thinking that at least 50% of guys have at least let another guy blow them once.
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ok, this is the post you should pay attention to. if you like to suck a dick once in a while, cool. more married men than you will ever know do it. ive done it. prolly do it again. it doesnt mean your gay. sex is sex dude. guys, you need to be honest with yourselves. you know that youve let a guy suck it before. dont lie! ladies, almost EVERY guy one time in his life, (or maybe more) have done it i promise you!
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there is *nothing* wrong with giving another guy a blow job. Im married and i'd have no problem with my husband doing that. its NOT an affair it has NOTHING to do with love/cheating. Its strickly the SEX of it, and its the *thrill* of if *anyone EVER found out*. its harmless, UNLESS your uptight. THEN its a huge DEAL breaker. LOL
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I would be sick and hurt if my husband did something like that. I don't get it. The younger generation (and I'm only 38) seems to think that bi-sexuality is ok. I my day you were strait or gay for the most part. I see/hear of a lot of bi-sexuality now a days. I think if you are gay, you are born that way. You don't become gay. So your deciving yourself one way or another.
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This site is just a reaffirmation of how messed up people have become... no morals or values anymore. It is sickening how promiscuous people are, especially when in relationships. If you wanna be disgusting, do it on your own, don't involve your poor wife that you are probably going to give aids to!!
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You women need help. A man cheating with a man??? No woman can compete with that? He likes a man's mouth and anal sex with a man, an if he asks you to have anal sex then you should know right then that he would rather be with a man. How sickening that you all would allow that type of humiliation. Why don't you tell your husband to make the mature decision of being gay or straight and being married or not. You can't have it both ways unless you are with someone that has such low self-esteem that they would put up with anything just to keep you. It doesn't mean you are that good, it means they are that insecure.
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It's not so much the suckage of cock, but all the lying and cheating. Get therapy. You're a liar and a cheat. Is that who you want to be? You sound like you are out of control.
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to the MORON who said " there is *nothing* wrong with giving another guy a blow job. Im married and i'd have no problem with my husband doing that. its NOT an affair it has NOTHING to do with love/cheating. Its strickly the SEX of it, and its the *thrill* of if *anyone EVER found out*. its harmless..." You are obviously clueless and your husband should thank GOD he married such a stupid woman that he can get away with anything. LOL
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The point is cheating is cheating is cheating. There is now way around the fact that this guy is married and supposed to be committed to someone. Gay or straight, if you're f***ing around you're gonna get an STD of some sort.... And if you're married then you shouldn't be f***ing around.period.
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Did it taste good? Get a life
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I think two men together are HOTTTTTTT....I would probably f*** my husband better than I ever have if I found out he was sucking dick. HOT.
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For heavens sake, tell your wife, divorce her, and put an end to this senseless sham!
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