The 3rd anniversary of my brother's death is coming up next month. I can understand how you are feeling. If he hadn't died I would have taken my own life by now, but I can't do that to my family...
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I lived 12 hours away from my mother for four years because it was the only place I could get a job in my profession. I only got to see her for a few days each year. I finally decided to resign my job to change care
ers so I could be closer to her. I moved to a city just a few hours away from her and enrolled in nursing school (they gave me a generous scholarship,and figured I could get a job in a year at the major medical center near here home), but was so busy that I didn't have a chance to schedule a visit until after the fourth week of school. As it turned out, after THREE weeks of school she fell into a coma and died. I never got to see her conscious again. The pain was so awful that I dropped out of nursing school. It's now 3.5 months and I still cry every day. I know it's not much, if any, comfort, but you are not alone. I shall pray for you. May God bless you and give you strength.
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God will be there for you, just cry out to him.
He will comfort you and strengthen you again.
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I lost a Nephew, A Brother and Father and Favorite Uncle along with close friends in just several years, I gets better 'TRUST ME'. Just stay close to those that are close to them also and share the good times.
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I lost my brother in 1988, I was 22. It changed my life and sent me feeling like life had no "real" purpose. It takes time, and sometimes lots of time to heal. Mourn and grive at your own pace, but be good to yourself and believe in this life. Happiness could be just around the corner. Your mother wouldn't want you to suffer.
Think peaceful and positive thoughts of her and things will turn. The season of grief will change.
God Bless
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God is always there for you. Always ALWAYS. I lost my father 4 years ago.
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please get some professional help.
this much grief and sadness is not good for anyone.
you've still got a life to live.
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Professional help costs money, A LOT OF MONEY. I have insurance but they don't pay. I guess I'm just supposed to live in this world miserable. Was on Paxil, they stopped paying for that too. I hate leaving the house, have a breakdown driving to work most days. I just want to tell people to be nicer you never know how bad someone is hurting already.
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My mom died over 8 years ago and my dad died just last year. They were both taken much too early due to cancer and disease. Been very tough to cope with but just hang in there it WILL get better.
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My Mother is all I have left. My two best friends died, my Father, my stepfather, my grandparents. I have no brothers and no sisters. I'm unmarried with no children. I'm 62.
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Your mother will live forever in you. She would not want you to be this way, so keep in mind that she is not really gone, but lives inside you.
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I have been the same way. My Dad passed away 2yrs ago at the age of 47 from cancer and everyday gets worse then the day before. I hate being so depressed. Time doesn't not heal my pain.
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I;m criing reading about everyones pain also sharing with u the same, my mom too died at 61 4 yrs ago....... i know being a mom too....she wants me to be happy and remember all we had done together, idon't have regrets some day we will be together again, i smile when i think of her, yes sometimes i want that ball in my throat to go away....but she knows even now how much i really love her.... and im not a very religious person....
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i was so angry at my mom for years!!!! I often wished she would dissapear or a few times i wished she would die. Then i watched her die. i was the only one not even other family. The regret and guilt gets worse everyday.
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I know how you feel, I lost my grandmother who raised me. It's been 3 years and I still feel lost. Its as though the only person that really cared is gone and I'm not sure if I will ever be loved again. Walking in a sea of strangers is hard. Just keep yourself as busy as possible and do a good deed everyday.
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I wish my son loved me as much as you did your mother. Some people pray for connection so deep.
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I thank all of you that have posted here. I wrote this almost a month ago and just happened back by it. Thank you so much for your kind words. I went to see her today with my boys and wife and I felt a little bit of comfort going to see her. I have not been in a while. Thank you all so much!!!!!! TG
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Remember all the good things about your mother, the mantle has passed to you now, bring her goodness to life. Its sort of a possitive way to deal with the loss, as hard as it is. I felt the same when my mom passed, its never really gone away, but you learn to cope.
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I have never gotten over the death of my mom either. I wonder if it's very common.
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Get professional help now. It is a strength not a weakness to save yourself. Do it... do it. do it. do it.
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my mother pass away when i was 16yo now im 48yo
not a day goes by that i dont think about her
buddy the hurt will go it just takes time.have a good cry do not keep it in... men cry too
i know im a man . hang in there.
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I know how you feel. Some days I miss my Mom so badly, it takes my breath away. She was my best friend and the only soul who was totally in my corner. I still go to the phone to call her nearly every day and she's been gone three years .
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