How can it be selfish? Does HE feel the same?
I think he probably does. Nothing selfish about miss. Maybe not something everyone understands. But if you BOTH do, and you do. What more can we ask for?
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no such thing as an age barrier when you love somebody(as long as your not talking about a 12 year old or something extreme.)
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I'm 26 and I never date women my age. I prefer women in their 30's or girls that are 18-21. So if it makes you happy I say f*** it who cares.
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hey man i just got married to the love of my life, im 42 and she is 24. Never thought it would last, but f*** what anyone else thinks-love is love!
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Im talking to an amazing girl who is just a little older than me and i know nothing is going to happen because she, im sure, has that mindset... I wish age had nothing to do with it, and wish i knew that she would be able to be with me regardless of age...
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17 yrs I am 40 he is 33. Yes he was 16, thank god he was past the age of consent even though he courted me.
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dont believe them when they say "age is just a number" that's when they are blowing smoke up your ass
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I have been happily married for ten years to a woman who is 15 years younger, we make it work because we address any and all concerns extensively prior to a huge commitment. It is not just a number, but it is also not a deal breaker. I never like younger women, I just feel in love with the women I am with regardless if she was ten years younger or older. It is possible to be practical and to follow your heart against odds, we have a beautiful family that I never even knew I wanted until her.
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For me with this women, if she was 15 years older it would not have been a problem. I actually think that society judges the older man thing very harshly, assuming the women has issues and everything else. The point is every circumstance is different, but I am sure that it is possible to make it last with the right people.
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The problem is never when a man wants to be with a much younger woman, it's when a woman wants to be with a much younger man! Suddenly she is robbing his cradle. When a man is with a younger woman, I think he tries to deny his mortality. When a woman is with a younger man, she has an opportunity to become alive, since the older man probably was the one who killed her in the first place...then left her for a younger woman.
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ummm project much post above me?
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If you truly connect, age is just a number.
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The love of my life was 19 years older than me and it was the most wonderful time of my life. The passion we shared was un-matchable. There have been a few regrets along the way but I still love him with all of my heart and soul and always will. Wish things had worked out differently for us but I still talk to him almost everyday and he understands me more than my own family. There is nothing like loving someone who you can be 100% honest with 100% of the time. He is my best friend.
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To the above poster...Whatever do you mean?
Taking those years away? Were not talking about murder are we?
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omg 4 abouve I had a very similar situation!!!
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It's a personal choice. I think most guys feel better about themselves with an older woman. It isn't about her appreciating it, but about appreciating each other. There are no expectations. You can talk things through and enjoy the compromises. I am more content with an older woman because she doesn't make me jump through hoops to love her. :-)
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Who ever said thats what he wanted? Different people want different things. Maybe all he wants is her?
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I am 30 and feel torn because I am deeply in love with a 19 year old, after my divorce I never thought it was possible. I don't want her to feel tied down by being with someone so much older, but I can't imagine letting her go. I actually do feel selfish, but she loves me and I am not going to turn away from it... Even if it ends up hurting me in the end, I want her to be ok no matter what happens. I am conflicted to say the least.
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Age and race are points of view, not points of contention.
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