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my father is an idoit and an a** ****.  I try to deal with him but it's hard with him being an AA god.  I am never good enough to him no matter how hard I try.

my father is an idoit and an a** ****. I try to deal with him but it's hard with him being an AA god. I am never good enough to him no matter how hard I try.

 
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sounds like he wants a drink,an AA guru acts humbled
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As a father I come down hard on my 5 kids and 9 grandkids because I want them to have better that I did, the old you get the more you will understand, remember there are 2 sides to every coin. hang in there
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Sorry your dad's a dick but that picture is funny.
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W/ him in AA he shouldn't act like that, but maybe you are perceiving it that way too. Has he ever made his ammends to you? Its all about change.. Change yourself for YOURSELF only, not for him and maybe along the way he changes. He might not, but don't make it your problem. Hang in there!
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AA has help many, many people to stay off alcohol OK but their thing is you are an alcoholic, now and forever, you are f***ed up and no matter what you do you will never be normal. In addition to your other issues that had you drinking in the first place you feel like you are even more of a piece of crap loser and will never be good enough. f*** AA!
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He's been in AA for over 20 years. I used to go with him to meetings when I was a kid. When I got old enough to drink he sat me down and told me I shouldn't. I told him I am my own person and will make my own mistakes thanks. We have always had a very open relationship, but he's gotten more judgmental as he's gotten older. He's angry at me because after having dental surgery I was given Vic's for the pain. I'm using them for the pain. now he won't talk to me because he thinks I'm using..... what the hell, I'm not the addict, he is. it's been like this my whole life.
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we've gone threw this before, I feel no need to do it again. I just keep my distance.
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God, this picture is perfect!!! "Kiss my ass"
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This is a situation you are subjecting yourself to. Think about it. Why do you keep putting yourself in a position with him to be judged by him? It's time you start your own life and keep the aspects of it personal.
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