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I said it didn't matter... and I know it shouldn't, but I'm not sure if I can be around forever with someone who can never have my child.

I said it didn't matter... and I know it shouldn't, but I'm not sure if I can be around forever with someone who can never have my child.

 
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are you sure, with modern medicine, that there are NO options??
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Well, get sure and then if you decide you cannot compromise be honest with your partner. Sticking around with something like that in the back of your mind will only do harm to you both.
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Sometimes, it does matter. You both deserve to be happy and maybe it isn't together...
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The man I love doesnt want any children.. I would like at least 1. But Im willing to give up my want for a child so I can keep himm. I love him
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I agree with you. I was naive and didn't realize that my husband would never be able to give me a child. We've been married 5 years and I have regretted saying "I do" each and every day.
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I have had 2 children and had y tubes tied, my boyfriend of 4 years has not children, I'm waiting for the day that he feels the same way towards me.
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Sorry for the typos, what I meant to say was I have had 2 children and had my tubes tied, my boyfriend of 4 years has no children, I'm waiting for the day that he feels the same way towards me.
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How can you say "It doesn't matter?" Why shouldn't something so central to a marriage not matter? If you have doubts now, you know YOU CAN'T DO IT! Say goodbye and find somebody new!
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What about adoption? He or she would still be "your kid." Just another option....
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