Maybe the feelings mutual? The saying goes, if there's grass on the field play ball. Im a man in his mid 20's who finds myself more than attracted to a woman in her 40's. How can it be wrong when it feels so right?
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I don’t think its wrong at all and I’m a guy. Its very natural to have feelings for someone much younger then yourself. You can love this guy so much, it could last forever. You are not a pervert. If you like him sexually, that's nothing more an attraction the opposite sex. Just the way it should be. Heck men have loved young girls for ages and in some countries its legal to marry a 12 year old. The only difference between us and them is they groomed and mature their kids for marriage. The don’t just pluck them from the clan and say “here marry Bobby who’s 55 and balding” yuck……
Just because this kid is 16 doesn’t mean he cant learn from you. which may be a blessing because he won’t have experience so many sluts that will break his heart. However age 16 to 30 is a wide gap so you might want to think about how this will play out in the long run. As he gets older and start seeing the younger cuties he might look at you as grandma and want out. That would tear you apart.
Think hard about this.
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I'm with the other guy. In 2 years he'll be all yours. Keep in touch
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although i somewhat agree with the first poster, i dont see how anything that feels natural can be wrong.. but i'm thinking i'd rather not spend time in jail.. i will wait 2 years and see if the feelings are still there. its not right to do otherwise. i do know he feels the same about me, and he is a virgin.. he is adorably sexy and it would be so cool to teach him what i know.. but i shall do what society commands me to, and wait til August 2010.. *sigh*
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No cause that's pedophilish. Jk.
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Only you can control your actions.....Think if someone had this desire for your Son or Daughter....how would you feel ?
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This is really based on what the kid wants. If he truly feels the same passionate feeling for you as you do for him, he will wait it out as well. In 2 years he’ll know if what he felt is still as strong as back then. If you look good to him now and you keep yourself up with exercising, sex-appeal, and no drugs or booze, He’ll want marry you in a heart beat. On the other hand if the 2 of you just want to “bang it hard” because it’s the cool thing to do. Then that’s all it will be: “older women -younger guy screwing” That get’s old real quick especially with him.
There’s lots of eye candy out there and if he’s a “Brad Pit looker“, he gonna be some other gal’s catch before you can say I love you.
However knowing that you are older and more experienced, you can use the “get him whipped maneuver” if you know what that means:
If not here’s the definition: You give him the best sex he could ever imagine, learn all his pleasure points and hot buttons, be nice to him, support him mentally, don’t be his momma- be is girl and most of all be a lady in public and be a hooker in bed.
Do that and he’s your for life.
I know it works…. I was the younger guy and I married my older gal. Boy do I love her to death. She still looks hot and work out 3 times a week, and man is she a monster in bed. Wouldn’t trade her for a Paris Hilton type for anything.
I also agree with the poster 3rd above me LUCKY KID!
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When I was 14, a neighbor who was 28 professed her desires to me. I took her up on it, but was very discreet. It taught me a lot. I don't consider myself as being molested at all. I'm now 49
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Boy I wish I was fifteen again,,,,,,,,,
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Im 49 but looks much younger and I work out al the time so I look like I did when I was in high school. 5'3" 106 lbs. The other night I went out with 2 of my friends, girls also and had a blast and drank and danced for hours. I was approached by 2 21 year old handsome boys and I kissed both of them. But I only did one of them. It was quick, to be expected but fun. I was very flatered how they said they loved older women and couldnt keep their hands off me. They even ignored the young jealous girls who were giving dirty looks and were not as in shape as I was....But I dont think I should tell too many people about that night. They would just frown and judge me.
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Are you a teacher? What are you doing hanging out with 16 year olds? I don't understand?? Do you work in a candy store??
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just because you think someone in thier prime physical condition is attractive does NOT mean your a pervert.
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feelings are what they are. actions are what get you a jail term. if you Really LOVE this Boy, leave him alone so he can learn at his own pace with someone his own age. sometimes true love means letting it go.
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Lucky kid!
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me too! i'm 42 and i love younger men...i'd like to teach a 16 year old the ropes :)
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You can't control how you feel, just what you act on.
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if onlywe could all turn back the clocks of time hmmm
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Wow these comments are as shocking as the post. How is it ok for a woman to lust after a child, I think people would think different if the poster was a man.
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typical teacher.
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I think the age of consent is 16 in most states
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I used to have that same attraction by older girls, i had a cousing gettin gmarried and she was attending one of those private colleges in vermont I think I was like 15 or 16 and one of her room mates offere to show me her room, I was too dumb to know she wanted sex with me, cause she told me she liked me she was an older sister of someone I went to school with after I figured out what she wanted i tried to meet with her again, didn't happen :(, and a actually 2 of my older brothers girlfriends kissed me, not like friendly on the cheeke full on the mouth like they want me kiss, I never told anyone, i again was like 14 or 15 and they were 18 /19, made my dingle tingle for sure fantasized about one for long time growing up!
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Perhaps this will benefit both of you! :)
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