Get rid of him. Get into counceling.
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If you had an abortion and you feel regret, that's fine, but don't try to alleviate yourself of all responsibility by saying "he forced me". You'll get no sympathy here by shifting blame. An abortion is a medical procedure that YOU CHOSE to have. Fess up to your own bad decisions, don't blame others.
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I don't think you know the circumstances of this secret. When a man beats you senseless everyday and threatens to kill you and the child sometimes you don't really have a choice. Its a frightening situation to be in
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when a man beats you senseless everyday, you leave. period. You don't whine and cry online about how he "made" you undergo a medical procedure, and stay with him anyway. Accept responsibility for your ever increasing bad decisions.
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OP, don't be bullied by the people on this site (who, BTW, have every right to bully any poster). You have resources available to help , no matter what your situation is. if you don't know where to start, go to rainn.org.
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I think what people are trying to say is that there are only a few, highly unusual scenarios where someone can "force" another to do such things. It may have felt like coersion, but the OP was the one who ultimately chose to commit the acts. Now, she needs to get some help and move on toward becoming a whole person who is not only responsible for her own acts and choices, but who cares about herself enough to attract good, healthy, caring people in her life.
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no one can Force you to have an abortion (unless they tied you down and shoved a coathanger up your twat). accept Your Choices and act accordingly. Blaming never solves anything.
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I love how no one even thinks about laying any blame on the guy but the poster. Half the comments are just saying how to accept responsibility for her actions. I don't think anyone knows the situation and ultimately while it was her decision (unless a very unusual occurrence happened) you can feel forced into a situation very easily by verbal or physical abuse and leaving is not as easy as just walking out. Have some respect people and a heart goodness you should just feel grateful it wasn't you and offer help not harsh criticism. Personally I am sorry you had to deal with that and should get help as soon as you can. No matter what happened you deserve better
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