Yoou need a better woman, like I need a better man.
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She apparantly has anger that she has not dealt with. This DOES NOT make you a loser it makes you a wonderful man, however she either needs to get into counseling with you or you need to leave and be with someone that wll not abuse you
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It goes on more than you know. Just grab her by the neck and throw her down and scream, no one gets hurt.
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You're not a loser. It's not your fault.
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This is so, so common. Find a group and tell someone. There are many resources online. Please find one which helps abused men. The fact she beats on you, means she is confident you won't turn and beat on HER, and that means you're too strong to hurt her. Now, use that strength on yourself, and tell someone she's beating and abusing you -- preferably a medical professional who can get you BOTH to the right resources. The fact you don't hit her back doesn't make you weak, my friend. Quite the opposite.
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You don't hit her back because you are a Marine. And Marines are meant to absorb abuse so someone else doesn't have to. I admire any person who through sacrifice saves another person from abuse. Semper Fidelis, brother. You are a true Marine. But one day you'll have to walk away. I had to too.
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This happened to me too. Just don't hit her back...one day I did and the court overlooked all her abuse and charged me instead.
Do yourself a favor and Get. Out. Now.
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baba is that you?
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You need to at least seek counseling. She might come along with you. I really think you should get away from her. This is messed up. Other men are in your shoes, you would tell them the same.
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Abuse is wrong, no matter who's doing it to whom. Get counseling - preferably together, but go alone if she won't go with you. Discuss it with a chaplain, or a spiritual leader if you have a church home. Keep records - photos of your injuries, dates & times - and be ready to go to the police unless she stops.
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dont lower yourself to her level dont hit her pack your bags and get the hell out when she begs you to come back to her tell her to go smack herself and see if she likes it
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You are both in great danger, along with any children. She needs help now, and you need support. My wife abused me, verbally, for years, and the day I told her off, and said, that's it, I don't need to put up with this, she tried to seduce me on the way out the door. She said all she wanted was for me to be the strong one. She was so sweet, but I was done. As soon as she knew I was really going, there are no words to describe the hate, anger, venom, etc. Best of luck, OP you are in a tough spot. And thank you, thank you, for your service to our country.
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My girlfriend also does this to me. She is really pretty. It would be SO embarassing if others knew.
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I think you are a real man for your restraint. Best Wishes.
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Tell that b**** the get the F*** off you and continue the relationship like normal people should or you're gonna leave her for a better looking woman that respects you and who you can have a way better marriage with. You went through marine training. That was the crap you had to deal with. You don't need to deal with her crap. ~PwnMan~
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Hang in there buddy. It's not easy to know the right thing to do but in time, you will know.
my prayers are with you
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you are more of a man then most. i am a women who used to get beat. i went to the law and got protection. now i own a gun. you should speak up. more will respect you cause you did not hit her back. let the law protect you. if you speak up maybe some other men will.
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As a fellow Marine I feel for you man and hope the best for you my brother
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My first wife would start swinging wildly when she got angry. It didn't hurt, so at first I just tried to block her hands. Finally I got tired of it, and I hit her......once. That was the last time she chose to express her anger that way.
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My ex girlfriend used to hit me in front of her family members and call me the N word a lot and it became a normal thing...until I f***ed her. Now, when I leave her, she begs me to come home or at least to let her be "the other woman". I don't feel good about it either.
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