A man did not tell me he had a girlfriend. He used me to cheat on her! It was awful! I called his house after he moved out and failed to give me the new address. A female voice was on the message. His friends told me he was engaged!
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This is a tough one. too little information. If what you left out would have nixed his interest in you, and you had reason to know that, you yourself knew this was likely. If it was a small matter that should not have mattered that would be a bit different, I am in a long term marriage that started at the beginning of on-line activity. We had very many things to disclose and work through, but we did.
Still, I wish for you a successful relationship. Good luck.
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I'm sorry. That's very tough lesson to learn. I learned mine years ago (for instance, it was AOL 2.0!), and still think of him, to this day. It's a bitter reminder to always, always, be yourself, honest, and upfront. The people you attract will be so much better for you. That happened to me too -- but I'll never forget that man.
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Awww.. don't beat yourself up over lying. He lied too. Just so he could f*** you and leave you all twisted up in "love" with a figment of your combined imaginations. Get out and look people in the EYES if you really want to find truth and love of any realistic magnitude.
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don't lie, fool
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This was me almost 5 years ago now. To this day, I still think of him but not as much as I used to 3-4 years ago. I actually realized just the other day, that I was better off with out him, as he lied to me about alot of things too. I think about how much I thought we had in common, that we really didn't & at the time I was fooling myself because I was so "in love" with him. But I now think that the version of love I experienced was not really true love, it was just wanting to be needed/wanted/loved. I cried alot as well & in time, it got better. And it does take time, a lot of time. More then months, it took years for me. Just remind yourself that you lied for one reason or another & more then likely he was lying too. Don't be hard on yourself. If he really loved you, he would of forgave you & stayed & wanted to work it out. I am sorry he turned out like my online love. A real doozy! And today, I am happier now then I was 5 years ago....this just proves that he wasn't my "True Love"...he was just a stepping stone!
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Whats your email,you lying whore.
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Sould have told him you were (or are) in porno! He might have not minded!
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(op here)Just an update.. he sent me an email last week saying how he has gotten over what happened between us and hopes that we can still be friends, I was so excited at first but now that I know that he forgives me and that he is ok I feel like I have a closure and im ready to move on. I dont think im gonna keep in touch though i still do truly love him, I think its best to just move on.
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(OP) Commenter #2 thank You so much for checkin in and caring =)
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I think that you got what you deserve. you whore
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Stay friends. Take it slow. You never know...
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i bet you were fat.
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