She may not be a little nervous about it. You say you want to just have sex with man. She maybe thinking that the "just sex" may turn into more. Just sex could turn into just sex and friends. It could go further..just sex and love. She maybe nervous that you will leave her. Its understandable. It happens. Its a risk on her part no matter what decision she makes.
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If you feel she isn't okay with it - she more than likely isn't...think before you act.
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Hey - I wanted the same thing - eventually got divorced. Admit you are gay - you love your wife - and decide what you want more.
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WTF! Why are you still married? You're obviously gay as a 3 dollar bill. Be true to yourself, and your wife. Men are not like women (where it is very common to be bi). Just be honest man.
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Do not do this. It would probably be the beginning of the end for your marriage
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I went through the same thing but i did wait until we were divorced then was with a man. After that point i started thinking back and i was gay from the beginning but trying to do what everyone was telling me was right. I can actually go back and my first instinct of gay was at eight years old. You are born gay its not a choice. I made the choice being with a woman now i am living my birth of being gay. Cheating is not right though so i wouldnt do it but just think back and see how long you have felt this way that will tell you your decision.
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You are NOT born gay. You make the choice to be with a man because it turns you on thinking about it...the act makes you gay, not the thinking of it. You are confused and using the "born with it" excuse. Gay is wrong!!!!
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She's not OK with it.
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No, you are the moron. One with a huge lack of morals, as well.
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It does bother her.
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that would prolly be the last nail in the coffin of your marriage
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How can she be? Control your affections!
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A woman cannot compete with the strength and passion of a man. It's very primal and it's HUGE that you are recognizing and verbalizing your urges. You could be closet and if you are denying your true self you are hurting the both of you. My husband came out of the closet after 4 years. We had been great friends and remained so after the split. He is living his life to the fullest and I'm a proud 'fag hag'!
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theres nothing wrong with being bi ask her to be there mabe join in she might like it you never know
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Ask her if she's knows some one that can join the two of you
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Don't do it you will never hear the end of it.
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IT'S A TRAP!!!
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Don't do it - and keep your thoughts to yourself! If you're single, that's a whole 'nother ballgame, but it will certainly damage, if not end your marriage.
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