Quit thinking God has a "plan" for you. Stop being an ignorant Christian and take control of your own life. You can either embrace your addictiona dn do it responsibly, or you can treat it like any other addiction and seek help by helping yourself. But, God and prayer won't help you, only you can help you.
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First of all, start to investigate other views, Chrisianity is not the only way to view the world ,and live a good life, much of the Bible is from the hand of man, and not god, Be critical and learn of other ideals. Sex addiction is just another way to numb yourself to the pain of being human. You can learn a way to love yourself without the panacea of a falce god,
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Sex is not an 'addiction', it is a natural (God-given) drive, like hunger, thirst, and the need to breathe.
It also feels good, and we naturally want to repeat things that make us feel good. This doesn't make you a 'sex addict' - this is a trendy term used by those in the 'addict industry' to make capital out of your guilt.
Most people think about sex several times a day, and sometimes wish they were having it that often! You're NORMAL!
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Just go with it. You will waste so much time trying to deal with the guilt. Sex is beautiful, no wonder you want more. You are just a sexy person, embrace it and spread the joy. Just be safe and don't hurt anyone.
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Addiction is a classification--you can be addicted to anything to the point where the smallest urge is more important, more present than huge life goals, dreams, relationships. I don't think Christianity is the problem...expecting some outside force to "fix" things might be. When you pray and "god answers," understand he does so in your own thoughts and voice. You have to turn yourself over to change and enlist the help of others to hold YOU to YOUR word and promise.
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It may be that God is answering, but you're not liking what He has to say- so you're not listening.
I'm in the basket right next to you, brother. I've done far more hell-worthy things than that. But at least we'll have each other for company in hell, right?...
(That was a joke. We're not likely to end up there.)
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Please do not listen to the naysayers. There absolutely is a God...anyone who believes otherwise has never looked at science very closely. It's way too intricate and inter-related to all be an accident. God will help you, but you probably will need counseling or therapy. Get help and keep praying!
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god helps those who help themselves, that means get help and he will do the rest
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God hears all prayers. Open your heart; the answer may not be what you want to hear, but He does answer. You are in my prayers.
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You are nothing without the Lord. You can do all things through Him. He will not cure you. You will have to pray and do the work, but He will be there with you to keep you strong and give you the courage to continue on the right path. Go to meetings, talk to professionals, and pray. I wish you well. God bless.
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You don't hear a response because God is a construct of Man's imagination. If you don't want to have sex so much, don't. If you need help restraining yourself, see a therapist or a professional dominatrix.
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*screaming* "OH god"during sex, does NOT make YOU a christian sex addict!!! lol
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Find a Sex & Love Addicts 12 step program. It worked for me it can work for you. Call AA.
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Read the book "The Shack" by Wm Paul Young. It's life changing...
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You said you have prayed,well listen with your heart and you will hear from God.It is not his will that you stay in these chains,and he will deliver you.
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read "Choke" by Chuck Palahniuk. It's hilarious
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To the "There's no God" people...
I'm sorry but there's GOT to be a God! Evolution's got too many holes and frankly our bodies are the most incredible machines ever created. NASA can't get it right after a bijillion man-hours of intense engineering, do you think plankton was somehow better??? And I also don't buy into "aliens" or anything else that develops anything like us, or would be sensitive to time or in fact, have any beginning that would have to be explained. Something VERY different from anything we know HAD to exist IN THE BEGINNING...
One of you said "I left the church 10 years ago". I agree that the CHURCH is f***ed up, but I wouldn't blame God for human lack-of-wisdom! So you're divorced and free of the commitment...who wouldn't be?? I'm glad you're feeling strong in yourself and your new life. However, remember that some day we're all going to meet our Maker, and I'd rather believe in Him now and find out that He's NOT real later, than not believe in Him now, and find out that He IS real later. According to the Bible, that's an unfortunate time to make that discovery. Get rid of the anger and see what happens... My view is that God doesn't want perfect people, or even perfect-acting people...He finds those dull and insulting. He wants to walk with His creation, just the way they are. That's what He finds interesting and worth-while.
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I'm the person who posted the picture of a child praying but no one is listening. Take my word for it. Prayers a waste of time. No man in the sky is there to hear you. If you feel your addiction to sex is a problem there are many other ways to deal with it.
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stop worring about the sex adiction, its the christianity thing you need to get over.
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One of my favorite quotes is from Pope Lois of the 16th century "It has served us well, this myth of Christ."
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What is the withdrawal from sex addiction like? Wood for days?
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We are all addicted to sex. Just use it for pleaser and not harm.
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f*** you guys trying to say God is fake just because you dont have faith dont try to make other people follow..Have sex who cares you know it feels good
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Just look around
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The first thing you do, is give up on the fantasy called Christianity. That empowers you to call your own shots. The second thing you do is stop condemning yourself for how much you love sex. Sex is great, just be safe and careful. Then you start enjoying life, the way it was intended to be enjoyed.
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It behooves you to get married, because our lord said "It is better to marry than to burn with a passion!"
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