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He really is the perfect man for me. I'm just afraid he'll never completely get over the b**** that broke him.

He really is the perfect man for me. I'm just afraid he'll never completely get over the b**** that broke him.

 
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what if she wasn't a b****? what if it was him?
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Three sides to every story, his, hers,and the truth!
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Who are you to judge her? Most people like to blame their exes for all that went wrong in order to garner sympathy from their current love. You sound like quite the b**** yourself. somewhere between his perspective and hers lies the truth. Which is really none of your f***ing business.
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Yes I am the "perfect man" to my wife. The b**** that broke me in opened the door to my manhood and I am thankful. My wife would never have wanted me if it were not for the b****'s hard work. In some societies older women train younger boys to become men. I kiss my wife's feet everyday and thank her for being in my life. Fortunately she was the b**** to several others before she met me.
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Wow, so many negative comments towards me! Let me explain...she was a selfish & narcissistic princess who left him for no reason other than SHE thought she deserved better than his lifestyle (he owns his own hom, has a great job, I don't understand her choice at all.). She is an immigrant to this country, was royalty in China, and thinks she deserves better. Every single person around him knows this and blames her. Yet he worshipped her. She broke his heart, and I don't know if he will ever be the same. Does this make any more sense?
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And let me add this too...he does worship me also. I am so fortunate, and appreciate his lavish love. But there is always a part of him that I can tell lingers on the thoughts of her. Will that ever go away?
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Mine's not perfect he just can't get over the fact she cheated on him,so now I pay for it everyday
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Time...
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Gather up those pieces and make him whole again.
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He probably won't.
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Why would you settle for a man who is so broken and without the capability to move on from that state?Love yourself enough to know that you deserve a better man.be careful who you call a b****.It takes one to know one.
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Hey my b/f's ex still haunts him to this day. They don't talk - but there's a financial arrangement that is one year from being paid off. Every month when that check goes out - it has to remind him (and it does) of them. I'm hoping that as TIME goes on the memories of this ex will dissipate. He was treated poorly, in comparison I treat him so much better. And yes there is three sides to a story. I never heard the ex's.
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Some wounds never heal. The best you can hope for is to help him learn to let go and see fully what he has before him.
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the equation for perfect does not have a man hung-up on an ex in it.
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kick him in the ass and tell him to get over it, and wait no longer...
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