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I'm a closeted heterosexual in a lesbian relationship.  Every time we f***, I close my eyes and pretend you're a man.

I'm a closeted heterosexual in a lesbian relationship. Every time we f***, I close my eyes and pretend you're a man.

 
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Do the right thing...you need to tell her and/or leave her. Its not fair to her.
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that's insane
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Why?
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Wow, what? First time I heard of a closet hetero. I don't get it... why would anyone need to be? That's so unneccessary.
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I agree...that's a first for me to. I also agree to the first comment about it not being fair, but not just to her, but to yourself either. It would possibly be your true path to happiness to go your seperate way from her.
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It's difficult. And closeted heterosexuality is possible, I came out to all of my friends and family and co-workers a very long time ago, I also contribute a lot of time to my local glbt community. I'd feel like a hypocrite. I feel trapped. At least we have love.
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Homosexuality is no more a choice than heterosexuality. And this one post is no more proof of your ignorant beliefs than the bible is proof there is a god. I'm truly surprised that narrowminded bigots like the above commenter read other peoples' secrets. I'd rather be homosexual than a holier than thou hypocrite who's so insecure about their own sexuality they have to use their religion to enhance their homophobia. Stupid f***ing christians.
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Actually, it isn't.
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Very unfair to her...
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I've lived as a gay woman for 20 years. Everyone in my life thinks I'm (still) gay. I'm in love with my secret male friend with benefits. Even worse; he's cheating on the girlfriend he lives with.
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Wouldn't that just be bi-sexual then? What is wrong with just loving the person you love and who cares if it is male or female. Just do the right thing to the person you are with and be honest.
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ALL women are bi. If you're going through a 'straight phase' now, then go with it.
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ALL women are bi. If you're going through a 'straight phase' now, then go with it. This is the most stupid you could say!!
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^ yeah
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^9 You are apparently unaware of how much self identified "lesbians" hate bisexual women.
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I have had lovers of both sexes, and at the end of the day, it is not a big deal. Sex and sexuality are only a small part of my high pressured and complicated life. You will resolve these issues one way or the other; wait and see.
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