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I became a workaholic because I have no social life.  I tell myself that my coworkers are my friends but in reality, they probably hate me.

I became a workaholic because I have no social life. I tell myself that my coworkers are my friends but in reality, they probably hate me.

 
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The more you continue this lifestyle the worse it will get. Take a vacation. Join a club. Join a team.
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LOL. I use to be just like you. Put an ad everyday on Craigslist platonic section that you want to go out for drinks. I promise promise promise in no time you will have a sick rotation going on.
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I doubt that they hate you, they probably would like to get to know you better.
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Bring in a treat one day, donuts, bagels or something, start socializing a little, take small steps...people WILL notice. good luck!
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your not alone
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Why would they hate you? Have you done something that would make them angry with you?
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everything i do makes people angry, i don't know why
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ONE thing i have *learned* about angry people, it is NOT necessarily YOU they are angry at. I used to take on everyones ANGER as something i did. And i have found over the years, allot of peoples anger i have taken on, was NOT aimed me,,but,just the fact they wanted to *talk it out* with someone. and be validated with being *upset*. and once i've asked people whats wrong, they are glad to *get it out there* and i am GLAD to find out. (i've done NOTHING to upset them) so trying asking these *angry people* Whatcha pissed off about???
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are things going any better?
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I was a workaholic, tried the social thing. Preferred the workaholic way after all.
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Co-workers usually are'nt friends,get out and meet new people (smile)-S
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I relate, therefore I fish.
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Frank? (lol)
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Join a club for local business professionals who have luncheons and network... that way you can socialize under the guise of talking shop... you can get your feet wet in a more social, yet professional scene!
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did you ever talk in chat--maybe you could get used to the whole thing by doing a teensy bit of that--but not a substitute!!!!!!!!!!God Bless.
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MY ONLY CO-WORKER IS MY BOSS AND SHE DOES HATE ME...CAUSE ALL SHE EVER DOES IS BITCH AND COMPLAIN. I THINK THATS WHAT MAKES HER HAPPY.
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::glances at office clock. realizes that it's the same time as the time on the clock in this picture. packs up to go home::
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if you ever need someone to talk to email me at shygrlm@yahoo.com...I'll be listen (reading them without ever judging you) :)
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At least your 401K will be fat.
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