Part of loving someone is risking the loss of your own comfort. Children deserve to be loved. Do it, and the rewards will more than make up for the possibility of loss.
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Do it and they will never forget you and the love you gave them.
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It's great to care so much that you worry about loss. Go with it, the alternative is regret. Long, hollow regret.
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do it, you will never feel so good knowing you help the kids, and they will hold you in their hearts forever. my stepson move out with his mother a few years ago, it hurt like hell but we still have the best relationship, he's a teen now we still go do things and always asking for advice that most teens would never ask a parent
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Loving is what makes us human and frail, besides I don't think you'll be able to help yourself.
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I have a "stepchild" she only knows me as a father and dad. I also fear that someday her real dad will come into the picture and try to replace me, it hurts real bad to think that she may one day hate me for not telling her.
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if you express love towards them ,you will never loose them and you will never be sorry. But first, just love their mom.
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Get Close Now! Do Not Waste Another Moment! Children always need love and approval. You will be rewarded time after time! There is a special place for people like you who give while they are alive! Express your true love today! How wonderful for your wife and (YOUR CHILDREN)Good Luck!
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You have to be a man about it for THEIR sake.
If you get hurt, just take solace in that you did it for THEM. They need you now. Nuff said.
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LOVE them. my step dad was the greatest influence of my life, i couldn't respect or love him more. when he passed away i it was much devastating for me than when my birth father died.
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Stop being so selfish.
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if you lose them? sounds like a real secure marriage. idiot.
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Blow that thought off man. If your a decent dude and can be a decent father and want to, then for every day you don't take on the role, your taking a day of love and respect away from those kids. It's better to have had and lost than it is to have never had before.
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You will only take affection from the real father, I guess the whore you married was cheating on the real dad and got divorced. The whore will cheat on you eventually, so leave now and let the real dad have a chance.
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