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i found gay porn on my boyfriend's computer and now i spend hours googling his various screennames. i tell him i trust him but i'm lying to him, myself, and everyone else cause i'm too afraid to be alone. i'm a damn fool.

i found gay porn on my boyfriend's computer and now i spend hours googling his various screennames. i tell him i trust him but i'm lying to him, myself, and everyone else cause i'm too afraid to be alone. i'm a damn fool.

 
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Confront him on it. Then go out and find a new guy who's not gay.
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I wish I could quit this secret....
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In this life you either pitch or catch, find out then decide what's best for you.
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Why are women so afraid to be alone? Get control of your life!
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It could only be good for both of you to talk about this issue between you. I'm a gay man, but married to a woman for the past 20+ years, and the secret is killing me.
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"and the secret is killing me." -- The diseases you have, could be killing her.
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I don't doubt for a minute that if a guy is fantasizing about gay "stuff", looking at gay porn...that eventually they will act on it. It's just a matter of time. GET RID OF HIM and save yourself the heartache and the wasted time. You can do better.
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my gf found out I was gay after hiding it from her for 4 yrs. the outcome was dreadful. but I ended up with the guy I love.
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It seems almost like I wrote this post myself....
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I like shemales...is that gay?
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If a man is looking at gay porn, there is no doubt he is gay. I was in a relationship with a guy for almost a year, to find gay porn and pictures on his computer, not to mention a link was sent to an add he placed for Men seeking Men. Now adays there are more people coming out or willing to show enough for someone to call them out. As hard as it is, you need to bring it up to him and most likely end whatever is left to your relationship. Otherwise it will just become worse.
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maybe he is bi. Ask him if he wants to do a MMF three-way, then you both can have some great sex together with another guy. Trust me, it is AWESOME! He gets to scratch his gay itch, and you get two hot guys servicing you.
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it's okay. You know the truth, you don't need to hear it from him because there's nothing he could say that would make you feel better. Do what you need to feel better, you be the courageous one.
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he maybe bisexual you need to talk and maybe join the fun you might like it
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Too afraid to be alone? Well I guess you know what you need to do...you need to build the courage to do. Chances are he won't admit it to you
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well, he likely isn't gay, because he is with you. He is probably bisexual. Don't let the porn get to you. almost all guys look at porn, treat it no different. Very few guys will actually leave someone bcause they have a fantasy you cannot fulfil, hell.. most all guys fantasize about people who are not their wife/girlfriend that just happens. if you are seriously too homophobic to accept him still.. I hate to say it, but your relation wont go anywhere.
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I agree with the spying... how can you trust him? You need to talk to him because you do not deserve to be treated like that. Life is too short for that bullshit. I went through it... a lot of time wasted being sad and trying to figure out if he was still lying. Good Luck!
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Stay with him only if you are still willing to put that thing in your mouth. Oh, and never get married to him and NEVER EVER have kids with him.
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tell him he's an untrustworthy fag and to get the "F" out of your life. you cant trust that he'll tell you he has HIV! and trust is the most important thing in a relationship. END IT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!
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Every day that passes you allow this a** **** the opportunity to pass on some serious STD to you.Maybe you need psychiatric therapy. OTOH, there's no help for stupidity.
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I hate to be in your shoes. if you still have sex with him then he maybe bi, most guys now a days are willing to have with anyone. Have you ever heard gay for pay, straight guys have sex with guys for money.
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Thats nuts dat same Shyt happen to my ex, when he found out she told me was da last she was allowed to talk to me i hope he likes bein a lien faggot
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Big deal. I'm straight, at least 90% straight. I look at gay porn sometimes but who cares. The wife gets more sex than she can handle from me and I love giving it to her. So I like to watch dudes blowing each other, big deal.
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