I hear you! I loved my folks, but their dysfunctions have done a number on me all my life.
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Find someone that you love and create the normal family you desire. If you have to stop most if not all contact with your family to make you feel normal, then do so.
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my family cant even spell nromal
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what exactly IS normal now a days?
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Do you think you have it bad? You should see my family!
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My family is a bunch of heartless bastards.
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I've always thought I'd like to be more like my family--their insanity doesn't seem to bother THEM.
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you can't because it's YOU. you're the problem.
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Stick it up your ass ^
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^^^^ WHAT A LOAD OF FECES !!!!!
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I have nothing that I need to prove to you.
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1 wish =normal family? My one wish involves something like sex, or money, or sex and money,
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wish all you want, OP....aint gonna happen.
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Seriously, you do know that Ricky perished before his time due to his DC-3 crashing after his last performance in Guntersville, AL. Normal is just a green-grass syndrome. But I wish you the best.
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All families are dysfunctional.
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^ suit yourself, I guess.
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I trust my family so much, and what they tell me something I take it out in the world with conviction because they told me so. I have so much conviction That I make a big ass out of my self all the time. I'll tell the truth when it is painful to tell the truth to almost everyone I come across everyday.
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My family needs to see what they May be given and the responsibility's that come with it, and I cant say it out loud I feel like a big dumb as mime. I would love to tell them all the things I would do for them, But there is Fiscal,ethical, social responsibility's That come with it.
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The one that Has got me so angry the past couple weeks is going to be the biggest problem and it will only be magnified.It will be so bad that I would not even want to give him my phone number. I'm good at spotting problem before they happen. I always bail him out time after time. I loose sleep over his well being. He has no Idea what fiscal, ethical and social responsibility's are. I could tell him what they are and he would not make an effort to achieve any of them.I see no clear answer.
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families suck alright, I come from a large family, every one of them is a selfish a** ****. although it isn't just families it's people in general who are selfish a** ****s
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You have it all wrong. I don't think in terms that it sounds. I don't know the proper terms for the personality type, and they would not sound as strong and disarming. Call it uneducated. I should say Every addict I have ever met has that personality. You should know me by now and know that. Plus it was mindless talk. Ones I thought about how it sounded and what the words meant I quit.
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I wish it was depression, it's Schizophrenia. MY mind is my worst enemy.
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There is no such thing as a normal family...It just doesn't exist
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you mean, like the guy in the post below this?
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I think we all wish that.
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It is true. There is no such thing as a normal family. Many times even the richest families are the worst. Look at Arnold Schwarzenagger and how he had a baby with a maid. Just live your life, OP, and don't worry about the norms of society. Even a mother/adult son incestous relationship is normal if the two dearly love each other and enjoy their intimacy. Morally, it is wrong according to conventions. But in their own privacy it is good for them. So, what is normal? What concerns me is sabotaging your friendships. Come back here and explain what you did to ruin the three most important friendships. Maybe some here can give good advice. Hide behind your computer and open up to us. Best Wishes.
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FUCKING retarded, Get the hell out of my business, you wonder why I got pissed. I will not be defined by my family. I draw the line at deceit full lying, drug addicts, mob members in the family. The only thing I can do is start a family of my own and have nothing to do with them but phone conversations, Just like the well respected ones in our family did.
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^ That is so true!!! Later in life I found out that it actually does bother them but they mask it by treating someone else like shit. Usually the nice/most at peace member of the family,
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This is why I, a white guy, love dating Asian women. I have heard some say they would be nothing in life's accomplishemnts without family. Some have said that they would have accomplished little in life if it were not for family.
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family smamily I eat at Denny's on Thanksgiving
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my sister is a perfect C-UNIT.......and has managed to make the rest of the family think she is Mother Theresa II.............
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No one understands. I'm out here all alone. No one knows the pain, no one understands the pain. No one believes me. It has been this way all of my adult life. The pain has not been as bad as the first five years, but totally debilitating none the less. I have totally ruined all my friendships. I don't beleive there is ever an end to this pain. Who I am will not let me become who I want to be. I have to start being more realistic. I have to start living like the people I despise so much. I wish god would end it for me. I have preyed to him many times to take me. I need your priers, and may god bless.
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Wow, you just described me to the word. My friend you have depression. Get on some medication. It really helps. But even on medication for it I still feel alone. Please get help for yourself. It doesn't have to be that bad.
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