I was a single swinger for about 6 years and I was surprised how close and caring you can get with someone you just screw. We didn't know our names but while we were having sex we were making each other happy. I had to stop when I got married but it was a great experience.
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Get your head examined.
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Dump her.
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2^ honestly THAT makes for MORE fun even..
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^ cool
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I would like to participate, but I would work the guys over while she watches, I am a good cock sucker - love the juice.
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The first one should be on your wedding night. Everyone there gets a turn at her but you. You get cleanup privileges after each of the guys fills her.
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Arrange them for her, as often as possible.
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Mine likes that too. It really adds to the fun
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:/
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Invite your buddies to come along on the honeymoon!
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I am the OP. I have never met a women like her. She is highly intelligent, educated, and really pretty. She is upstanding in her community and so is her family. She is compassionate for the poor and those with less than her. She is proper and acts like a lady in public, around my friends, and my family. She adores me and is very protective. Yet, she has this fetish to be gangbanged. She said she just wants to experience having all her holes filled at the same time. She gets excited when I tell her I want to give her five men; two for her hands, one for her mouth,one for her anus and one for her p ussy. She gets aroused when we talk about it. She loves the visuals. Someday I am going to surprise her with it somehow. Maybe a birthday present, or when we travel for vacation in another city far from our hometown.
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2^ Argh... The site didn't post my whole comment!
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2^ The original poster says she has a gangbang fetish. Not a rape fetish. Believe it or not a woman can have sex with several partners in one session without it coming off as a rape scene.
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My wife has the same desires. So far I've only treated her to several threesomes with me
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rape fetish is a privilege for people who've never been raped
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^ I know right??
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I am a swinger have been in a *swinger lifestyle* for about 15 years. (we've been married 28 years:) FOR some THE CONSEQUENCES are a closer more commited relationship, WE can experience SEX for WHAT it is, (something YOU and your partner share TOGETHER, weather its with each other, or OTHERS. We are MORE commited,and communicate with each other BETTER then MOST of our friends who have been married as long as we have. I KNOW we have a GREAT marriage. We dont sneak around, the OTHER gets to SHARE your excitement and THRILL of the SEX. My husband at times "helps me get ready, for our DATES", and I him!
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O.P., you sound just as excited as she is. It may have been smarter for her to live out that fantasy at some point when she was a single woman. There are consequences to dealings like these, think them through before you let a group of men have sex with your WIFE.
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2 up ^^ Op again. Yes, you are correct, it is just a fantasy, but she had a threesome before some years ago with a long-time boufriend. She is all for experiencing this gangbang. The surprise I want to give for her birthday(that is just an idea)would not happen if I was not convinced beyond a doubt she would not like it. I know she is ready.
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My wife is the same way. We have threesomes and foursomes. She loves it. She moans and screams her pleasure like nothing I can give her when we are in bed alone. We have become swingers because of how she is into it and how I love watching her enjoy it. My wife thinks I am amazing too. Believe it or not, we are far closer as a couple since we started. She thanks me for bringing this side out of her that she kept hidden for years before we met.
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^no wonder muslims hate the west and make their woman cover up. You want five strangers to f*** and ravish your wife? For a birthday present? You're f***ed in the head, man. Why not take her to a prison and throw her to the convicts for valentines day? Did you ever think that maybe it's just a FANTASY!!!! Idiot.
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OP here again. I showed her this post. She laughed and told me I was amazing.
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i agree to on something she said above. If two people agree to it why not do it and enjoy? If you can't just have fun with your partner why would they stay together? they should find somebody compatable
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3 ^^^ I agree with you.If the fantasy comes true and it is a letdown trouble in their marriage is not far behind.
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Being wrong is part of the fun. It is unconventional therefore exciting
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I think swingers are strange people, they are usually very accepting and nice but something is off there, I have been around them and have gone to parties so I know first hand. I am not a swinger, I do not want to see my wife sucking some strange dik and enjoying someone elses cock inside her...UGH thats just wrong.
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^ I have to agree with this post. I actually met my husband at a swingers club I frequented as a single 18 yr old ;P but once we were monogomous I did not want to swing nor do I have a desire to, sometimes I have fantasies but I feel thats just what those are, sometimes when you make a fantasy cum true it's a let down, sometimes of course it's not, but if it is a let down you will have to pay the consequence of the action along with a ruined fantasy sometimes it's not worth it, after all if you can't just have fun with your partner why are you two together? Oh yea and I have expereinced a gang bang many many orgies threesomes etc... they were what they were some were good some weren't, just saying but you know my husband he does not want to hear about it at all. LOL Depends on the people.
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^ You've been married for 28 years, of course you swing. I'm going to assume that it took several years of strengthening your relationship as a couple, building love and trust, before you decided to open your marriage up. You have solid love and trust, but the passion is dead now. Swinging infuses it :) That's understandable. Doing this in a new marriage/relationship can be detrimental, they need time to grow together, so they won't come apart. I've been a part of the fetish world for years, I've seen these things destroy relatively new relationships, just speaking from my experience. Younger swingers are unstable. Marriage first, sex with strangers later. lol
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I'm truly amazed,finally a decent "conversation" on this site and not a screaming match,Nicely Done Folks.Its also a fantasy of my wifes,but she wants to keep it just that for now.
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1^ what exactly are the consequences you speak of far beynd ones marriage? i would be very interested to know what you are speaking of? And my second question "what makes it perverse*, because its NOT something you'd do, therefore ITS wrong?
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There are consequences far beyond ones marriage when indulging in perversion. You sound like children when you speak of lost passion. Why not accept the challenge of infusing passion back in to your relationship. It amazes me how acts that were reserved for whores are now acceptable to men for their wives. Trust me, there are consequences for that filth that are part of this world and others that aren't. Enjoy it while it lasts... everything "fun
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I am a single female. If she has never done it she has a real thrill on her way. I was excited to the point I came close to passing out a couple times. The passion was too much. The woman a few up from here is right. Some of the experiences were good some not. The first one was the best. It was out of this world.
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Nine out of ten times the subject of swinging is brought up by one spouse, and the other is pressured into it to be supportive. If 2 are not in total agreement of what they are getting into, are not solid as a couple, have not established rules and are not respectful of them, resentment will follow.
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^1 well said, and i agree completely. Sex is for FUN, not life changing, and if your mate isn't into the same things as you, does NOT have to be a deal breaker!
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Old people swing because they come to a point where they realize sex is a game. Not something imposed on others by closed-minded religious zealots who think they know better than the rest of us based on a book written 2000 years ago when the vast majority of the population was illiterate. It is practiced today without proof that a God exists by the majority of the planet from being scared into thinking they will burn in the afterlife. It is so simplistic and powerful in the same time, it is funny
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most swingers are old actually there are few who are younger than 40 fewer younger than 30. Proves that things cvhange with age, and my point being waiting til your both ready, thats why old people swing.
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its okay if everyone is old ^2, IT STILL FEELS the same and is VERY enjoyable.. (although I do understand YOUR concern) it is the same concern for EVERYONE involved in old naked sex lol
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Lemme guess. You're all democrats
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^I alwasy say wait if it happens it will happen don't force it. Thats like me and my hsuband we converse about threesomes, and he is gung-ho when it's two women but then I ask for two men and he says NO, so sorry but I want a little fun to. So I think maybe furthur along in our relationship he mayjust say yes, I just hope it's not to far along when my tits are to my ankles :/
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