there are lots of options out there besides the one you are thinking of... I am not sure where you are located, but there IS help in many forms
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That's not going to solve the problem unfortunately, but create many, many more.
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If your wife and step kids no long respect you, do what I did while in your similar situation. Divorce your wife and her kids, then never look back. I promise, dude, life will get better. You just need to be patient and let some time get between you and your ex.
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Settle for any job. Any job. Fast food, gas station, labor, temp. service. Work until you find something better.
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Listen to Fanfare for the common man
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Don't take the easy way out, you must suffer with all the rest of us bastards.Seriously,if you do it you will hurt many.
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OP, those of us here who care are waiting to hear from you. Keep us posted. BTW I'm going thru a really rough time with depression myself, and I have a civil service pension to keep my lights on (but not much more), and I'm seriously depressed. So you just saved my life (for tonight anyway). Let's hear back from you. Waiting...
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let me guess... teenage kids. And your anger over not having that respect has manifested itself into depression that your wife finds hopeless.start each day accepting your strengths and weaknesses.control yourself not others if you can't get a paying job volunteer. things will change for the better when you change yourself for the better.
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It's June 2012, so what happend?
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Hope you found a job.
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you don't need to kill yourself and nothing bad is going to happen to you... don't freak out... i'm there with you... :)
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Im hanging in there. I am believing that 2012 will be a good year. I cannot sleep lately, i stay awake way past the time when my wife falls asleep, I stare into darkness as she holds me and eventually morning comes. I do not remember falling asleep...sometimes I have these dreams while I am sleeping and I do not want to wake up because i do not want to leave the dream or I do not want to forget the dream.....sometimes I try to continue the dream if i remember it, pick up where i left off the prev night. Sometimes I have a dream that I have had years before. I really think I am losing or have already lost my mind. Im not going to kill myself...I do know that my mind is fukked right now though.
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just another attention whore drama queen.
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I just want you to know I am not a bible thimper or religious zealot, but i have experienced some things that i couldn't explain other than .....At the lowest times in my life i have felt like i was in the bottom of a pit with no where to go, no further down out of money out of excuses for the electric company or the bill collectors.... I actually sat looking out the window up at the sky and said out loud "God I have nop answers and don't know what to do, Hey I need a hand here i can't do this all by myself!" time and time again over the years, the answers woould come, maybe not tomorrow, or next week or this month, but shortly, a check would come in the mail from my family or a forgotten over payment on a bill would come in the mail, or someone would repay a debt. Coincidence??? Not after praying many times and time after time and year after year the prayers were answered in some way....I swear man just ask HIM for the help WHOMEVER YOUR DIETY IS Jesus or Allah, or the great white buffalo it does not matter try it once if it doesn't work then All the times I gave up and was brought back from the brink of desperation MUST HAVE BEEN Coincidences.....I will never believe that The answers will come!
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Don't do it. Stepkids are all shit and your wife sounds like a skunk. Don't give them the satisfaction.
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well? big day and all...
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My wife was a Ars when I lost my job what I did was kick her out of my life moved to an other country and here I'm married to an awesome girl have a job and very happy with my life...
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Why wait till then, do it now, the wife will have some more tax write offs -
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2 up. Which country did you move to?
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there should never be reason for suicide. everyone on this earth is here for a reason and your time is not up. happiness is out there for you and money is not happiness. i hope all the positive comments on here make you think otherwise. i can tell your a good person and the man up stairs does too.
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I appreciate all of your comments, all of them. I'm not going to kill myself. I don't think it's in me to do that, sometimes I wish it could be that easy to take myself out. I can't. Im in Phoenix, AZ where there are few jobs......in my opinion few jobs for a skilled, educated, white male, U.S. Citizen. I have applied for a ton of jobs. I even applied at a tortilla factory for $8hr(didn't get it). I take handyman type jobs to contribute and help my wife. I think I am going to move back to N.Y. Feruary 1, 2012 and if I do I would have to leave my wife and I do love her but she will not move. I'm stressed by unemployment, disrespect, fear of my future....
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Also which country did you move to?
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^ oh yeah, I also get to wear t shirts and shorts and sneakers to work and listen to my tunes all day. I'm lovin it
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If you must travel to find work, do it. If your wife doesn't want to wait and F her. She can always become a pole dancer.
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^lol
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we are all in this together. you are not allowed to leave us.
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dude don't do it.
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people that tell others they are going to kill themselves never do, they are reaching out for help. If he was going to kill himself he would just do it w/o telling us
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come over i will take care of you baby!
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I just said a prayer for you.
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Get by on spite. And divorce her. That will help keep up your spite levels.
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If you once forfeit the confidence of your fellow citizens, you can never regain their respect and esteem. You may fool all of the people some of the time; you can even fool some of the people all the time; but you can't fool all of the people all of the time. Abraham Lincoln
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step kids are always crappy until they get older, they will grow up. Talk to your wife honestly. Things will get better, maybe not as fast as you would like and maybe not the way you expect but they do get better.
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Focus. There is work! I don't care if you have a masters degree. Think outside the box man. I make $45 an hour mowing lawns. Plus, I'm my own boss, work outdoors in the sunshine, get excersise, and have a killer tan. Put up Christmas decorations in the winter, ferltilize lawns etc!! I make a good living, I'm in great shape! You just gotta think. Hang in there man, you'll find something.
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