You b****! Why??
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Wait till he finds out. Not fair.
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You're a cunt
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maybe there's a reason you judgmental a** ****s...I know somebody who had to do the same! ever think about stuff from more than one side? didn't think so.
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If she did not tell him, there is no other side to the story and she is trash. If she told him and he just left, that is another story.
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Somehow, I think she just did not tell him because she is mad at him which makes her a total moron.
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WHAT YOU DID IS AGAINST THE LAW, JUST SO YOU KNOW.
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I wrote this. My ex was abusive and beat me when I was pregnant all through out my pregnancy and treated me like dirt. I finally got the guts to leave at 8 months and moved in with family. I do not seek child support. I do not want my son to know that his biological father would beat his mother to a bloody pulp while knowing she was pregnant. I do not get any government assistance other than WIC which barely feeds my son now. He's 7 months old and is the sweetest little boy ever. He's saying mama and baba. He loves to snuggle and give me kisses. I am so thankful to have a beautiful healthy baby. I will tell him one day and he will one day understand why I left his biological father and kept him out of our life. Your comments are not hurtful to me. I have my reasons for doing the things I do. I don't care if you judge. I know I'm doing the right thing.
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If he knew you were pregnant, then he knows you had his baby by now dumbass op!! Geez. Wake up!
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I like potatoes
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~~~dear mom, i ran away from home to find my father. please don't worry about what he might say about you. i already know.
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Why? Because she said it dope!
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if I had known that my ex was going to treat our child like a piece of flavorless gum and toss him aside when it was no longer convenient for him, I never would have told him. as a parent i know that no matter what it is, i will ALWAYS try to spare my child the pain of not being wanted. if for some reason that were to come back on me, i'd gladly explain what my reasons behind my actions were and hope that i raised my child well enough to be compassionate of a decision i made in their best interest. that having been said, OP- if you feel that it was in your son's best interest to not be a part of your child's life- more power to you! take that sense of empowerment you have for not needing that "man" in your life at all, and revel in the joys of being completely devoted to your son and know that as long as you always keep his best interests at the heart of all your decisions it will all work out the way it's meant to.
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2^ No, she didn't. That was another dope, not the OP, dope.
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^ man i wish a had a bowl of good dope to smoke.
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^ sorry to have awoken your monkey. oo oo ahh ahh
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What about it??? Like the child deserves a mom that won't tell a father that he is one?
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Oh, you think you will tell him when it's time for him to pay child support? You are withholding this for some time you dope. Who says he will even believe you when you tell him and no court is going to haul him in for a test after time goes by.... You already screwed yourself lady and you do not even know it. Ha Ha.
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You are going to have a tough time making anyone believe this if you let too much time pass. It amy already be too late. The case will be tossed out just like you were. What a dopey you are op....
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I'll bet he gets the kid because of what crap you pulled and you may have to pay him! A girl I know pulled this with a guy when the kid was 2 years old and he got so mad at her that he went for the kid and got her 100% and the big mouth girl had to pay child support to the guy because she made more money. True story. She should have kept her trap shut. She really pissed off the judge. What you are doing is going to come back and bite you in your fat butt.
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without knowing the full story I can only judge what is written, poor form, regardless he deserves to know he has a child. your son may resent you if he ever decides to seek his father out.
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Your story is an excellent example of why people should use birth control.
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Why does anyone here think she's going to seek child support? Cause that's what you would do? Sounds like the op is happy to keep her secret. Probably a good idea.
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Your kid will resent you. great decision MOM.
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Good for your ex. You must still love him do do him such a huge favor.
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What an idiot..
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if the guy was dangerous or abusive or something and you felt like you were protecting your child then i can understand...if not then you are just being selfish. but i will say this. there will come a day that your child is going to want to know who his or her father is and they will resent you for keeping him a secret. i hope you can live with that.
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oh, he will know..when the child support kicks in aqnd the back support bankrupts him.
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Wow, so you're using your kid to make your ex miserable. Congrats, you're a douche bag. If you feel he deserves it, why stoop to his level? You teach your kids to be what you are, think before you turn that kid into what you've become.
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