I think I can fix the problem....I am happy to help females with these problems. I think you should buy some porn that deals with women with groups of guys(especially big black C)or a cuckold type movie and see if that turns him on. I am thinking he secretly wants to see you doing it with other guys....that will get him back in the game.....DO NOT KNOCK IT TIL YOU TRY IT.... COMMENTERS!
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Play with yourself while he does you, works every time! :)
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I cannot figure some guys out. The more pleasure you give a woman, the more you get back. It usually takes me a couple hours on an average to make love to a woman, if she stands for it, as I totally believe in exploring all of a woman. I have had a few that have had some screaming orgasims.
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Let me guess, he makes all these demands about what HE wants and you do it, but he does nothing that you want. Gee, I know how that feels. It's like talking to a brick wall. My boyfriend of 3 years has sex like a robot. He has ZERO passion yet he complains that do not know how to have passionate sex. I have explained to him over and over again what I want in the bedroom but he does not give a shit. All he cares about is blowing his load like MOST men. Seriously, I feel like I'm standing in a room screaming at the top of my lungs, but nobody f***ing here's me. I got so tired of wasting my breath that I have completely stopped trying. I do not understand how one person can be so f***ing selfish. I have done everything he has asked of me, yet he will not do the simplest things and HE WANTS MORE. Sorry for venting, my best advice to you is to go on strike. Do not have sex with him or relieve him in any way. Buy a dildo/use your hand and f*** yourself. I've 5 days into my no sex strike. I doubt it does anything except make him a even bigger bastard, but oh well. I like to watch him squirm. Meanwhile, I just strted a new diet and I've lost a few pounds and I FEEL GREAT. Fix yourself up sweet heart and go find a real man. Preferably, an older man! One that has his shit together.
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You have to know your body well enough to know how best you orgasm, I think too many women expect their partners to know their bodies better than they know their own.
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If he doesn't care now he won't care later, get out while you still got it.
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While you contemplate whether this marriage is worth your time, just find someone who will scratch that itch.
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^ I'm guessing some people don't want to get so much out. they're missing in, my opinion.
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What the HELL you, get back what you put in!!!!!!!!!! Woman need you to take time, not wham-wham, thankyou maam.
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3^ Do you HAVE to be with someone? Dump that loser and start looking for a real man now. There's no need to play stupid games.
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Prepare for divorce. It will not last. I give it 6 years
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He doesn't care because your married. Call Dr. Ruth.
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Too cool. Enjoy ;)
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OP here...wow really great comments! Thanks for the input..we actually had a long talk about this situation and he promised to try more with me...so a positive start!!! He had an odd upbringing and I think somewhere along the line he connected pleasing women with emasculation? I know thats wrong, but he is dealing with it...:) Also please don't think I just lay there and expect to be entertained, as it were...I put in effort too! :)
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I agree with the one above. I date older men. Look around and find a good one and they definately know how to treat a woman. With your youth they will be proud to have you as a girlfriend.
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Did he bring you to the point of orgasm before you were married?If so, what has changed?
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