It really is hot to do it with someone's wife....I can sense when the spark is gone and the hubby doesn't bring flowers anymore....It happens at the 2-3yr mark and then about the 7-8 yr(7 year itch)I used to fall for these women all the time...not just using but something between us was always like a magnet...hard to explain...then i fell in love with (a guys wife she was just a friend) and we both were so compatible, we liked the same things(he hated her likes)I used to get heart palpiutations and butterflies and shake near her.....after several yrs my wife decided to divorce my firend and i startedan affair, I totally immersed my sould with hers and when making love I would shake with desire and passion,.....she has been in controlling and abusive(mentally, verbally, emotinally)marriage...and these controlled women can't break free...we have been in love for 24 years and I will wait till the day I die for her
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1 ^ I wholeheartedly agree. There is no less dignity in taking your own life due to an inoperable disease, or starving to death, than it is to, say, lay in a bed in hospice watching yourself waste away from 200lbs to 85 pounds. Yeah, there is a lot of dignity in that. If I ever get sick I am moving to Oregon. God bless that state.
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1 up. It is murder only because we have allowed others(in power) to set the agenda and define what is murder. No one will ever convince me that when an individual is dying and, with the help of another, takes their life rather than wilting away in a hospital bed, the one remaining should not be charged with murder.
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3^ Then apparently wrong is not wrong no matter what. you proved my point. As for cheating and abortion, just don't judge others if you don't plan to think about it. There are situations where both make sense. 2^ Murder is the unlawful, premeditated taking of a human life. Murder is murder no matter what adjectives you want to tack on. There are many situations where murder can be done with clear conscience.
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GODDAMMIT!!! You said you would keep your mouth shut, and now I gotta see it on the internet. My wife has a computer too, you dumbass b****. Oh yeah, we are still on for tonite.
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1,2^ - you two are a breath of fresh air around here! Thanks for posting! You are each right on.
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1 up...if you have to kill someone to defend yourself or your child, its NOT murder, or "not wrong murder" its self defence, no crime whatsoever.It cant be murder and be not wrong !!!
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There are Millions of people all doing the same thing . I say as long as you don't get caught you are not hurting anyone .
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^hahahaha Two pigs in a blanket.
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I love the "other woman" she is as umb as they cum. Your gunnah loveit even more when that dog brngs home a big bone like herpes, or wart, or crabs cuz some stripper flang her thing on him UGH GROSSSSS. You guys are like two pigs in a blanket.
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Let me guess, you're all democrats.
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is it ok to have a revenge affair. paybacks a b****.i want to get even.
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oregon sucks. washington rules.
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I love how it's shitty behavior to commit adultery, but few with that mindset are concerned with how shitty it is to expect your spouse to be completely asexual.
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If you think no one knows, you're shitting yourself. Between wives, husbands, children and friends, someone always knows and then someone else will know. You may not know for a long time just how many people you are hurting. ^Your perception is only a tiny sliver of reality.
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1 up. They just realize that perception is reality in life. If no one knows, no one get hurt.
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3^ No one gets hurt as long as no one gets caught?!?!?! You are nuts. You are simply trying to justify bad behavior. If you are committing adultery, at the very least you are hurting yourself - physically, spiritually, and mentally. If you insist you're not, you're either a damn liar, an ostrich with its head stuck in the sand, or you have no conscience.
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^4 up: You're REALLY trying to tell us that it's only Democrats who commit adultery? Ever heard about that Speaker of the House of Representatives who divorced his first wife to marry the woman he was screwing around on her with (serving her with divorce papers while she was in the hospital recovering from cancer surgery, nice touch there), then divorced Wife
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1 up. That's right. some married people stay together despite the unhappiness because of the price of divorce.
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4^ easy, they're afraid of losing everything.
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1 ^ same except it was a guy. I am a woman
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^ I also had an ongoing affair for years with a married woman and no body knew about it.
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3 up. That is absolutely not true. I met and dated a married woman for 10 years. TEN YEARS! and not one person ever knew about it. She never told a soul and neither did I. Not One! The only reason it ended was when I moved away with my job. We still keep in close touch and sometimes I travel back to the state she lives in so we can spend time together and also f uck.
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Get rid of the spouse. Adultry is still shitty behavior. Why do you people stay with someone who does not love or respect you?
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You people are worse than animals. You are depraved and demonic in nature.
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Boy, don't I know it. I was f ucking a navy wife for a while years ago. She was the best I ever had.
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There's a lot that can be lost besides money.
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My wife and I decided long ago that we would be finanically devastated if we divorced. We agreed that we would stay married and date others. At first it was awkward. Now it seems normal. We still have sex with each other on occasion and get along well. A few times we have watched each other have sex with out partners. Honestly, we gat along better now than ever before.
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so do we and we do not mind at all.
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^ it is why I have not divorce. M wife and I live completely separate lives
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1^ if two consenting adults have chosen to have a sexual relationship, and neither one is looking for more from the other, how is that "using"? Sounds more like reciprocity to me. What makes you think the woman is looking for marriage? Can't a woman just want to f*ck too?P.S. If a wife denies sex indefinitely and with no intent to change, I'd call that more than a rough patch. It's cruel to marry somebody with the expectation of monogamy and then deny them.
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Wow, all excuses trying to make adultery seem cool, I mean, it is 2011 right? Fuck off, if a marriage is going through a rough patch, as they all do, it's pretty weak to f*** someone on the outs with their husband/wife. That screams self esteem issues, not to mention, desperation. I can tell you what, if they are still married and still f***ing you, they are using you, not looking for another marriage.
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After writing ^1 up it occurred to me that you could switch the genders in that statement and it would be just as valid for some situations.
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yeah amazing until you fall in love 3 years later. i can't take the pain of never being able to sleep in his arms, i want to end it and i'm not strong enough, i don't want him to have another lover neither
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If his wife won't give it to him, he'll get it from someone who will. Everybody blames the husband and the "other woman" in these situations, but it's usually the wife's fault for being stingy, lazy, spiteful, selfish, or prudish in the bedroom.
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1 up: Demonic? Posessed? Evil? All because a married woman's marriage is crumbling into oblivian and she decidded to start an affair with me, knowing her marriage is headed for divorce anyway? It is religious nutbags like you the scares the hell out of people like me that you may end up taking political control of America someday
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3 up: Have you ever masturbated? The bible says you are sinning. Is that immoral?
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2 up. Friends with Benefits is immoral? By whose standard, yours? Let's talk about morality. Have you ever told little white lies to your spouse? Have you been caught speeding? Have you cheated on your taxes?
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I find it amusing when people create strict guidelines for their behavior, as in This is always unacceptable. Invariably you end up breaking the guidelines, making excuses for yourself, and railing against other people as though they can have no excuse as good as yours. Case by case is the only way to live. Abortion is not always wrong. Cheating is not always wrong. Murder is not always wrong. Blowing on the fire is sometimes the rightest thing a person can do.
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Friends with Benefits is an immoral issue when one or both are married to someone else. You don't fool around when you're married, or fool around with someone who is married. Period. It's immoral. It's wrong. It's also dangerous. If that person is fooling around with you, chances are that person is fooling around with one or more other people too. How many std's did you want to catch? Oh, yeh, keep it up.
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2 up/. Who is talking about marriage? It is a Friends with Benefits arrangement. It isn't about self-esteem issues. It is about having an exciting relationship that is taboo and crosses all social norms. Who cares if she is using me? I am well arare that she is married and she is well aware that I am tapping her in my bedroom. It is not about getting used. It is about both of us having fun. Poor self-esteem, desperation? Please, turn off that goofball Dr. Phil. You are actually believing his nonsense I agree that it is cruel to marry someone with the expection of monogamy and then deny them the sexuality that is supposed to accompany it. I also agree that there are plenty of married of woman who just want to f uck because it is not there in their own marriage
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I was just going to post something, but the hottie from next door needs some cream...i'll be back later
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8 up, wrong is wrong no matter what. Abortion is ALWAYS wrong, no matter how the seed was planted the seed is not at fault, and deserves life. Cheating is always wrong, even if your spouse is a piece of shit deal with the situation like an adult and leave them. The only way murder is not wrong is in self defense, or if someone has harmed your child and in that case, murder is my only option, is that right of me? Morally no, but maternal instinct beats that out without thought. I don't create excuses for my behavior, my only mistake is holding myself to a higher standard that no weak person could live by and expecting people to be as moral and ethical as I am. When I make a mistake I own it, I don't make excuses.
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11 up, if you're f***ing a person who is married to another person and you're o.k. with that, there's a screw loose. Marriage means that you've decided to hang with individual A through thick and thin, with an open mind and heart. If you're not getting sex from A anymore, and you can't go to A and say, hey, this has run it's course, and make arrangements for a divorce but instead you sneak around and lie, creating more problems, what the hell kind of person are you dealing with? A selfish person with very little character, that will put you in danger if A is a psycho who decides to hunt you down and shoot you for f***ing his wife. Liars can't be trusted, who would f*** someone who you know is a liar? Um, I'd say a desperate person. It's not about her just being married, it's about how she is going about it. Get a divorce if your spouse isn't putting out, but don't take the easy way out an screw around and make matters worse. Cheaters and adulterers are weak at best. Not attractive at all.
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^Infidel.
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what makes it awesome, is the fact that it is evil, sneaky, and wrong. I know , been there too !!!!
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^Heathen.
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I'll let the Puritans wallow in their own self-rightousness. In the meantime, I will go get laid.
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