^ you're an idiot.
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1 up I agree with two. I raised two kids to fear me. They never gave me one bit of trouble.
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1 Up you need locked away . That isn't even a good joke with the child abuse and deaths that are occurring all over .OP you do need a support system raising children is the hardest job you will ever do . But is also the most rewarding later . Hang in there it will be okay. Get away for awhile . You have to have ME time .
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kick the shit out of the little brat Slam her head up against the f***en wall. thats what i would do. You have to show them who is boss at a very young age, thats the only way they learn.
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2^ Great vaginally !!
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This is 4UP in Phoenix--If you really feel like you may hurt your child, PLEASE call 911 or go to an emergency room or a police station. It will be far better for you and for her in the long run if you get help instead of harming her.
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2^ Great analogy!
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1 up.....what if she's drunk ?
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1 up is right. I commented earlier about my not having kids, but i see far too many parents who think they must be unbreakable to be a good parent. Truth is, you need a support system and you need to take care of yourself. Think of an airplane emergency as an analogy. You cant successfully help others with their oxygen mask if youre passed out on the floor because you failed to secure your own first. Take care of yourself. Do it for yourself, and do it for your daughter.
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OP--Do you have a support system? Can someone give you a few hours off? Where are you? If you are in the Phoenix area, I will help you. I know that feeling; it's normal, but you have to have a break sometimes.
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If you don't let the kids get the upper hand early on, you won't have near as many problems as they are growing up. And you don't have to beat the hell out of them, you just have to set boundaries and a few rules. How old is your kid now? Wait till she's a teen, bwahahahahaha.
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I think children are annoying in general. That's why I didn't have any. Good luck.
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Op...are you a single parent ?
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Is that you, Casey?
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1 up: f uck, that was well-said
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Sure it's possible, but you being the adult, the parent should know not only how to help yourself and your child but also realize that if your child is being annoying it probably has a lot to do with your parenting. I have a feeling you are going to be the type of pathetic parent who will get your child diagnosed with some non existent mental disorder and put her on drugs (if you have not already) so that you don't have to deal with her.
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You make me sick. Fuck you. You should be sterilized.
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^that's not true. I love m step dad more than my "real" dad. My step dad was there for me when the other wasn't.
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Whatever you do, don't raise some else's kids. They will just grow up and you will still just be someone who married their mom. That's all you will be.
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I feel ya....I hate my 16 year old most of the time...really think about running away
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^ Depends, freak. Is that more a cyrulean or Prussian blue?
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^yea he beats her black and blue so when I get home She is happy to see me. Does that help you better to understand the situation?
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2^ Most of the time she stays with dad? Well, that's a useful bit of information. How does he handle her? Do you even know?
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3^ I have no emotional investment in you or the boys whose heads you bashed against the wall. If you want to advocate beating children, then set up a blog. Describe the punishments you gave, scan the sheepskins, and post the letters. Put a link to the blog here, and I will be happy to visit.
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4^ is good advice, I have done that more recently when I can, most of the time she stays with dad but sometimes We want to go togeher and there is noone else to watch her, so it's kinda inevitable. yes tere is a dad in the picture he is as fed up as me.
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5 ^ Stop being evasive. Send 1 up your email address or quit tossing accusations around
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4up. Set up a new yahoo account and I will send you email correspondence with my two boys that is undeniable
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OP, is there a dad in the house? Does he help with setting the standards of behavior?
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OP..if you didnt respond to her antics when you go out-(I know its difficult) soon, they will stop...OR...when you all go out, leave her with someone and tell her its because she cant behave,,,let her scream...and GO !!!!
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A lot of people here jump to assumption don't they. Where did wanting to hurt my child come into play? She also isn't as young as the girl in the picture she a a bit older and she basically doens't listen to me she doesn't even care what the cnsequences are. I definetly need to be more consistant that's probably the biggest issue. it's hard to be though because when she gets punished w all get punished there are 5 of us in our home and she is the only one who acts up? So how is that my parenting skills workd for two kids but not her? How is it that I am a bad parent. It's not that I can't stand her either it's that when we go anywahere what she does is what I can't stand, screms and yells hits her brother, pouts and whines, so her brothers don't do that? I find it amazing how many of you assumed I was the worst parent ever and that I want to harm my child lololol. I am at wits end with her and I needed a vent, that's what the site was for...right? P.s. I like the one lady who said I might medicate her hahaha why is that what yu did? Or someone who said casey ? WTH? No I didn't say I want to party without my kids? I just want her to be behaved. the picture was a exxageration, like I am sure 99% of the pics here are.
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2^ Since you know how often personal information gets exchanged on this site, you're a bad liar. There are some things you just can't lie about successfully, dumbass.
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^ ask those Ivy Leagurers how to spell THEIR !!!!
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1 up. Send me your personal address and i will forward you their Ivy League sheepskin and all the honors. I will also send some old emails we had back and forth about how they were raised in thier youth.
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3^ if you beat your kids and "slammed their head against the f***in wall" then you're lying. You produced some fine actors, slime.
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Yeh, the little girl in the picture isn't the one who needs the spanking - it's the parent who hasn't taught her some respect, and who let anyone teach that child to give the finger. I'd have clobbered someone for putting my kid up to giving the finger to anyone at that age!
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***dear op, i am not here to lecture or talk down to you but i have to say that if your annoying child is as young as the one pictured then the blame is on you. No child at that age understands the meaning of F-U. any child that has no regard to a parents command is unafraid because you do not hold the authority. stop blaming the child. you are the adult. good luck. Trust me when i say that the little girl in the picture was taught
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1 up Maybe you think I am. They do not. Both graduated with honors from Ivy League schools and they will tell anyone that I am one of their best friends.
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I wish you hadn't had her then. Quality over quantity. I bet you aren't such a joy to be around yourself.
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Kids can sense your frustrationand/or inability to deal with a situation.. You really need to ask for help. There are a ton of free parenting programs that can help you and redirect you child behavior. Don't come here and complain, do something about it! There is always room for improvements!
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That's right I forgot that you guys sitting behind your monitors are f***ing perfect. You all must not own mirrors or you guys are the type that think your kids are great but behind your back they are bullying others or smoking meth. Good Luck in your own lives. Don't worry about my daughter she is just a spooiled little girl who gets whatever she wants especially from Daddy, bet you wish you had a Daddy huh?
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^So true. Lots of things can cause serious problems in the modern world besides deficient parenting.
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I know people hate to get a psycholgist involved... but being a mother with a very challenging child I had to. There are some diagnoses that explain why a chld has social problems. OP, it sounds to me like you need some intervention. I myself am a single mother. Dad was rotten. And having no support system to turn to I had to seeek out medical help. It was either that or continue to be hit and abused by the child. He is now involved with many agencies whom are trying to help him regulate his emotions. Autism spectrum disorder is just one they think my son may have. Hang on. Our children are our lives but sometimes our parenting isnt all there is to it. I love my son more than anyone on the planet and do not want to see him end up in jail as an adult because he was untreated for his emotional/psychological issues. Some people just refuse to believe in psychological disorders. Thay can have their opinions. Love her and seek help.
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Kids can sense your frustrationand/or inability to deal with a situation.. You really need to ask for help. There are a ton of free parenting programs that can help you and redirect you child behavior. Don't come here and complain, do something about it! There is always room for improvements!
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Kids can sense your frustrationand/or inability to deal with a situation.. You really need to ask for help. There are a ton of free parenting programs that can help you and redirect you child behavior. Don't come here and complain, do something about it! There is always room for improvements!
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Kids can sense your frustrationand/or inability to deal with a situation.. You really need to ask for help. There are a ton of free parenting programs that can help you and redirect you child behavior. Don't come here and complain, do something about it! There is always room for improvements!
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OP, Maybe the problem is tha you had too many kids? 5 you say? Maybe if you had been more careful in your family planning you would have had enough energy to deal with all your kids, not just the ones you deem unnanoying? Your daughter obviously has some issues if she is is upset and acting out. Have you considered that her environment might be the problem? The environment I speak of is living in a overly large family with minimal attention, compassion, and empathy from her own mother?
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Heh, 3^, sometimes you can raise someone's kids and when they can't get their way at your house, they'll run away to their mom's house and you'll be the bad parent - even tho' you've been the "mom" who was always there for them through everything. It's not just about raising "her" kids - step parenting is tough whether you're the mom or the dad.
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2^ SLAM
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