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I realized I only date women who are hurt or need help. They fall in love and I help them heal. Then I lose interest and move on. Is there anyone meant for me?

I realized I only date women who are hurt or need help. They fall in love and I help them heal. Then I lose interest and move on. Is there anyone meant for me?

 
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join the Salvation Army !!!!
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I was the same way with momen for years. The only problem was I didn't leave. I was married and divorced twice. I have always attributed it to being raised by a mother who had no idea what it means to teach a kid to have a healthy relationship and an absent father.
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When you find someone you need as much as they need you only then will you find love. Someone who makes you better and want to be better. Someone who fixes you too.
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Yep, bird on high, there's no answer to that but the magic one. What ^ said.
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When you rescue a damsel in distress, you're stuck with a distressed damsel.
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Grudge sex is better isn't it?
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^has it damaged you or your outlook?
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Both. I don't know why I bother anymore.
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^...I agree, piss on it
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Didn't James Taylor write the song "Handy Man" about people kinda like you?
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there were lonely times when i could not find a handy man.
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same here....so I ran the washer, made me feel better-wink
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You have a messiah complex.. Google it.
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This is called co-dependence. The only cure is detachment. You must work on being a good person by helping yourself rather than helping others. While focusing on being a better person, your relationships with others will improve and be more satisfying.
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Wow... You and my ex both. I call it the white horse complex. Ride in to be prince charming, make the girl love you and then leave them because you need to "fix" someone new, while breaking the person you just "fixed" by doing what hurt them in the first place. Its mean and sad. Go find help for the reasoning behind your complex. Please.
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These last 4 offer some insight to your condition. I refer to it as love addiction, and it is amazing the justifications a mind can come up with to protect its addictions.
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Your so lame it's why you post "secrets" about lies. Work harder.
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I think I am on both sides of this situation, depending on which relationship I analyze. How to stop? Stop dating again I guess.
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So then you hurt them again by abandoning them good going jerk.
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i hear Casey Anthony is getting out soon
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To answer your question.... NOT LIKELY!
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Casey will be out in 3 weeks !
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I don't know. I think the OP is more suited for O.J.'s release date than Casey's.
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Love is transformative, and you're putting out what you want desperately to take in. Stop worrying about it never happening, and it will.
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