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Disabled husband can't work but spends my $$$ on lots of guitars even tho we're always broke, & he can't play for shit. I'd like to smash one over his head.

Disabled husband can't work but spends my $$$ on lots of guitars even tho we're always broke, & he can't play for shit. I'd like to smash one over his head.

 
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do it !
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If you're going to smash one over his head make sure it's a cheap one...better make it an acoustic, too, or you might kill him.
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he can only spend YOUR money if you allow him to. seperate accounts?
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sorry girl, nobody can take advantage of you, without your permission (think about it) Whats disabled, his ability to get out of bed and go to work?
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Stop letting him use YOUR money. You LET him use you. You are to blame if he keeps doing it. Stop him.
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You shouldn't have married a black.
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Wow .. I feel sorry for you but I can relate. When someone has you controlled with fear like that it is hard to break. Secretly video tape his threats, document everything and then get help! Why should you have to pay for HIS disability.
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what do you call a drummer with no girlfriend?HOMELESS
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^hahaha
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1 up. Come on. It is not sterotyping when the truth is steeped in reality. I have been around enough of them for enough decades to know that most rock musicians are dirtbags. Regardless whether or not they can wail on their instruments. You need to stop being in denial about yourself and/or your friends
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2^ another frustrated drummer? Don'tcha wish you could just play the guitar?
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1 up. He would be happy to be able to play two spoons on his knee
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I'm the OP. I do take his SS but it's practically nothing because he's been disabled since he was 25 and didn't work enough to pay into it. He has the attitude that he deserves his toys because he's disabled and if I argue, he goes nuts on me. You can't win an argument with this man and he'll make your life torture if you try. If I leave him he'll never leave me alone and has told me he will kill me -- and I have no doubt he will. I made my bed and I have to lie in it, hopefully he'll die before me and I'll have some time to myself. To all of you who aren't married: be VERY careful who you chose!
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Tell him NO MORE GUITARS! Sell some of the ones that make the most money and re coupe some loss. Screw that noise! He can't even play and he's wasting YOUR money? Kick his ass out! He's a parasite.
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Does he ever trade? Got anything vintage?
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Sell two of them and pay the mortgage. When he ask you what happened tell him that you needed his part of the money...
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If you smash them over his head you will be the epic, ultimate Rock Girl!
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leave him, you can do better
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He's drawing disability from Social Security, isn't he? In that case, there has to be an account with his name on it for auto deposit. Once it's in there, take it out and put it in your account. Then manage the money well and pay the bills.
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