you are now free to go!
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Op: I love this website, I love the honest people who feel like they can help people with their advice. You guys rock!!!
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Sorry for the loss of an ideal but just remember biology does not make a child any more or less yours. If you've been raising and loving this child, then they are just as much yours if not more so than if you were the "biological" dad. I know that doesn't take away the pain of betrayal/disappointment but try to remember how much you love this child and they love you.
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If you raise the child, it IS yours. Doesn't matter.
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I think us guys always fear that. Here's what you do: first, lose the skank that is the childs mother second: get child support from the biogical fatherthird: love that kid like he was yours. It's not the childs fault mommys a whore, he/she needs a solid parent. Raise n love that child and make the dick that produced it pay the bills. Kick mommy in the twat
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^ that's actually excellent advice
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Sorry for your hurt brother...... :(
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I'm sorry
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WALK and WALK FAST ! ! You deserve better ! Keep what you earn and enjoy it yourself ! !
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kill em all. (not the kids)
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F u c k keeping your eyes on the bigger picture. Thank your good luck that you found out now rather than waiting until the kid is grown. I am sure that your straighten their head on straight. Then they would see their mom as a whore and have a twisted view about relationships for ever after. Just bail out and start your own family. You might want to raise your standards a bit. Next time study the girl's family for a while before getting involved with her. That will tell you volumns about what kind of woman she is going to be for you. It works damn near every time.
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I am so sorry you're feeling this kind of pain. It takes all kinds to make this world go round and unfortunately unloyal cheats like that woman are also part of it....Keep your chin up. You can still love this kid, but it won't be the same. That's not your fault and it's not the kids' fault. Be better than her and do right for this child. Good luck
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There are 1 million men in America raising kids they think are theirs but aren't.
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Op: baby mama married the real dad before telling me the child's not mine. We didn't stay together after baby was born, she started dating him and before baby turned one they were married.
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Maury strikes again
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that sucks on a bunch of different levels
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Whose to say that the guy will not want to know he has a kid?
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Dude, let me tell you something. If it is not your kid, go away. I raised two from childhood. You will never be anything more to that kid than someone who was once with their mom. No matter what you do for them. Start your own little research. Find people who raised someone else's kid to see what they think of them or how close they are to them, or talk to an adult who was raised by someone else while under the same roof with one parent. You'll see what I mean.
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cont... whoever you talk to about the kid they raised be sure the kid is now grown and an adult.
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1 up lol that is funny, but not nice, considering how tramatized the guy must be. It would be interesting though, OP, to know how you learned about this. Will you come back and share how that scenerio went down?
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4 up. unless you stay with the mom.
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Keeps you eyes on the bigger picture... Even when it is hard
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