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What would you do if you were 35, and after going on 2 dates, found out he had 7 kids?

What would you do if you were 35, and after going on 2 dates, found out he had 7 kids?

 
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Double up on the pill.
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Restrict your love life to oral sex only?
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RUN!
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Run and fun fast..
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Marry him. He is a breeder.
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I would stop dating black men
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ask your self if its worth it... That's Childsupport for each kid til they turn 18. RUN...
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Are they each with 7 different woman? If so, go to college to get a doctorate in Human Genetics.
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RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUN
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Run like hell.
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Run like hell
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They make good servants!
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RUNRUNRUNRUNRUNRUNRUNRUNRUNRUN!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Figure he is black....LOL
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He must be black. You have to give him credit. He sure is pumping out some powerful nignog
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You will always be 8th in line... Think about that
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Buy him a box of condoms. Someone should.
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2 up. That is f-ing halarious! You cracked me up
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hide yo kids, hide yo wife, and hide yo husband cuz he been rapin' errebody out here!
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2nd date before that info came out? He's not real proud obviously. Gotta question that...
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Are you in Utah?
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run.if they're under 18,run faster.the ex (or ex's)will always be around and one or more might not be nice.
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The kids will probably always be around too. Some of them might not grow up to be so nice either.
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7 nigglets?
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Do they all have the same name?
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Maybe she hears her biological clock ticking and is wondering if he can support any kid(s) she might have with him - ??
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i want to know why its such a horrible thing that it took him TWO dates to tell you he has 7 kids. Why is it a problem people,its TWO dates, prolly 4 hours out of your life. HE didnt ask you to marry him.. ONLY have dinner and get to KNOW each other.. whats THE big deal!! lol
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That's not something you can decide through others opinion. You have to follow your heart.
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Shoot the SOB - not for the kids, buy for not telling all there is about him.
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Maybe he told her he had 7 children on the second date so she would run and there wouldn't be a third date.
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RUN.... and FAST
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"stop dating black men" hahahahaha
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he's a breeder. and, bad with condoms. think about that
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....if you need to ask the public, you best stay with him, duh !!
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5^ Why should it matter if he had 20? You gotta be kidding. I'd want to know what possessed him to have 7 kids. Sounds like he has no focus or sense of personal responsibility, even if he does pay the bills.
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DROP HIM!!!
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Everybody who said "Run!" and "Drop him!" are absolutely right. Also, I'm guessing you admitted to being 35 as a clue that you're desperate to find a man and settle down. Is that true? There are plenty of guys your age who are not currently married and who do not/will never have 7 kids. Do you have any kids already?
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Lose his number, change your number, move to another state and dye your hair and change your name. WTF!!!! 7 kids!!! 7?!!?! Run run run!! Are you that fUcking desperate for a man. Keep on looking.
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rruuuunn
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What does being 35 have to due it ?
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i want to say run. having a bunch of kids doesn't make you a bad person but waiting for untill the second date to tell you kind of does.good luck, let us know what you decide.
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1 up: Baaaaaaahahahahahah! Baaaaaaaahahahah!!
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As long as all the parents, if they are by different women, have taken up their parental duties and you aren't expected to be a replacement mother, why should it matter if he had 20? They're not you're responsibility to raise. But I do agree with the above on the child support aspect, if both of you are not financially stable on your own I wouldn't be in it for the long haul, because that is where the boundary lines of your responsibilities with the children will get blurred and you may even get taken advantage of if he turns out to be a low life. But the fact he does have that many children doesn't make him a loser like every one is saying, but keep in mind everyone puts their best foot forward in the being and you're usually too far in to get out once their true colors start shining!
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depends on the situation. does he have a good job, is he a good dad, is the ex a complete b**** or do they get along....find out the details first.
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Tell him you want five of your own someday.
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Dont show up for the 3rd
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Depends on how many mothers are involved, and how much you like kids. It could be good for you, there won't be any pressure for you to have any because he has a plethora already.
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Run..do not pass go do not collect $200
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If you are 35 years old and have to come to us with such a question, you have far bigger problems than dating a guy with 7 kids.
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