Porn sex is cold and graphic. If a guy is into that, chances are he has no clue about romantic sex. Sex is emotional for women. It is not for men. It's a wonder we ever stay together. Someone is faking. It's usually the woman---Until, she gets sick of it. Sick of sex being all about him. What woman with any self respect wants to be treated like a sl@$? Why do some men want to treat women like sl@$s? Maybe it says a lot about those men.
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just like most prude females you need to take the stick out of your ass and enjoy the kinjky sex, be thankful he finds you hot enough to share his inner most fantasies with you knnowing that you won't think he is silly or dumb...open yopu mind enjoy it and when you are 65 or 70 and all dried up and never have sex any more you can look back at the old days!
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^2nd up, so true so true! my husband :( admits to masturbating to pornagraphy 4-5 times a day before we were together, we have a non-exsistant sex life now
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people, there can be a balance of romance and hard core sex?!?!?!?!? the soft kisses before, the tender kisses after, and in between a good couple slaps on the duppa. lol
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1 up^^You are right. The Op thinks the problem is porn without realizing her husband sees her as a woman with nothing between her ears. So, he relegates himself to porn and masturbation after realizing he is stuck in his marriage.
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^ one up. Very well said. Best wishes to the original poster.
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To the Op. I do not see where anyone here said they have a higher moral standard than you. What someone did say is that if you are going to do the same thing as your husband( you watch garbage, sex-laced tv and his porn)then you have no basis of argument; and if you are going to complain about his porn, then YOU need to[set a higher moral standard than him]so you will have a logical position(a better position to argue from. Otherwise, you are no better then him and just sound like you are whinning and b i t c h i n g, which is exactly all you are doing. By the way, I am a woman, 44 years old.
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My GF of 13 years does the same and it is a turn-off. I told her the sex we have is like party sex. Where is the romance and intimacy? Frustrated and now looking around...
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2 up. Depending on your age-if you are older-party sex is far more gratifying than the boring routine of relationship sex.
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1^ It is because she came on here thinking she was going to get all kinds of sympathy. When she was challenged and her motives were questions she wanted to start attacking everyone.
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1 up Goodness, you can say that again. That woman(op) is one angry individual!
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I suspect we've heard the last of the op.
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The way I read it, it's not that she doesn't want to have porn sex; she just doesn't want sex to be nothing but porn sex. If he is getting the type of sex he craves, isn't it reasonable for him to offer up some romance now and again?
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