to OP i know exactly what you mean....I met someone that was just afriend(female)but something electric was between us, when I would run into her or get to talk to her i could almost not breathe, my heart would race and my mind would spin, we tried to stay friends but when her husband was transferred back to US...she called me and told me she was in love with me and she missed me( i was still married in Germany) my mnarriage was on the down hill side, I decided at that time(even though I loved germany) to at time of rotation go back to US since I knew I would be on same base as her, we renewed our friendship(no sex) just same intrense feelings, palpitations, rapid heart beat, breathless,when in 1993 my ex moved out Mar my friend and I were at my house and we started kissing and touching and I spread a blanket on floor, I told her it had been a long time since I had sex and she soothed me and said relax and i did and it was better than i could have fantasized...from that day on I was totally hooked, we met as much as we could over long lunches, and when he was out of town would sneak me into her house when kids were alseep,
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yea....I'll NEVER forget whatshername !
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I know what you mean. When I was married I had an affair with someone I met from an affairs-based website. I moved away. A few years later I went to her website to see how she was doing. She was divorced now too, but had not logged into her site for a long time. From time-to-time I still think about her. But I knew because of the way we met(in a dishonest kind of way) it could never be more than a sexual fling with a measured degree of emotional attachment.
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I miss him too
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It SHOULD hurt the cheaters in the affair. Why would you WANT the affair to hurt anyone else?
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And sometime in an affair the cheaters are hurt and so is everyone who's lives are touched by their selfishness and deceit and because the cheaters are so self involved they don't seem to notice or care how they have hurt others.
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It always hurts everyone. Even in the passive behaviors the cheaters don't know they do. They emotionally abandon their lives. CHEATERS SUCK
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thats always going to happen, your wife/husband has been around for so long that they are naturally annoying, your partner in an affair is exciting and new, you can't stop that from happening. drive the same car for 10 years then drive a brand new car for a week and see how good it is getting back into your 10 year old heap of junk.
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Hello Jenny McClean Pensacola airport, Delta ticket counter. Thank you for sucking my cock and letting me f*** you in the over nighters. Your husband needs to go get tested along with all of our coworkers that you f***.lmfao. muahahahaha sorry Earl your wife is a skank but i love f***in her.
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1 up. They are either self-involved or in so much pain and may feel trapped in their marriage.
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Hope you are miserable. Fucking cheaters.
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2^ In pain and trapped in the marriage? So what? Deal with the pain and heal it or get out of the marriage instead of being a selfsih WEAK ass.
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^EXACTLY.
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There is nothing wrong with having a bad marriage and having a affair on the side. Yet staying in the marriage for financial reasons or for the kids. A person just needs to be careful. If they are careful the misery in the marriage is very manageable.
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if your not happy and want to talk to op grow some balls and call them and tell them. but its your life no one really cares
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