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I swore to death do us part. Please let this just be a crush and daydream. I can't love 2 people.

I swore to death do us part. Please let this just be a crush and daydream. I can't love 2 people.

 
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I love more than two. It's just the way it is.
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Yes you can love two people . Promising till death do us part does not mean a heart cannot fall again for someone else . Maybe you love the two differently. I am in the same situation so I completely understand what you are saying.
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Just keep your vows. The grass IS NOT always greener with the other person.
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set me free, you are my first love, i am lonely
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Try being the odd one out in the triangle... It's not always about the grass being greener on the other side. There's fertilizer in both yards but sometimes, one pile of shit helps the land and farmer yeild more. Regardless, you made vows and no matter the shit their feeding you, its your moral obligation as well as a cost to your humanity to "shit or get off the pot" "The road to Hell is paved with good intentions"
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The grass is not ALWAYS greener on the other side. Trust me, sometimes it is. I divorced due to my misery. I have no regrets. But I will tell you from watching a family member, if you divorce for another love, you will regret it.
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You should never divorce for someone else. You should do it for yourself.
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Yes, you can love more than one person, but you can only be married to one. I agree that you shouldn't just jump into another relationship. From a legal perspective, it really sucks... Be patient, take your time, think it out, and be 'confident' that you are making the right decision. Often, doing the right thing is the harder thing to do; however, sometimes making the right decision for yourself is the right decision for everyone.
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2 up. Then you need to figure out a way to avoid this person. Or you will forever be fighting the sexual energy between you.
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If you REALLY loved your spouse this would not have happened. You are weak and selfish. Hope you get what you deserve.
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1 up. Bullshit. You can love two people. One being a spouse.
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^yeah u love 3, 3 special peeps
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YES, you can love two people..BUT if you are married your spouse would certainly not be one of them. I'm sorry but if you can fall in love with someone other than your spouse, you need to grow the f*** up and get out of your marriage so your spouse can find a GROWN UP who knows what real love and marriage means, and is competent enough to be a valuable and sincere partner in a real partnership that grown ups can appreciate and thrive in. GROW THE FUCK UP, your welcome.
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^Excellent point. Marriage is about confidence. Give it or get the f*** out.
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yeah,that's right, i've been hurt before, don't hurt her, if U really love her, and you did take your vows, than set me free, i rather me hurt than some1 else, just sayin....
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I am the one who replied first . The people saying not to leave the one you made vows to for the other one are right. You should only leave for yourself or don't leave at all.
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Whatever you do, DO NOT leave for another person. You will be jumping into the oven from the frying pan. How do you know they will not do to you what they did with you(messing around with you while you were married)? You have a moral issue. But so do they. You know yourself like no one else. Under the circumstances that you met, that person cannot be trusted.
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cont...or you should at least be careful about their trust. Do think, Oh, thaey would never do that to me. You ain't all that. It can just as easily happen to you. who knows, maybe they would not trust you deep within their heart either.
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There has been no messing around. Just friendship that seems to have grown to more. It's why I'm hoping it's just a crush. I take my vows seriously, I realize my marriage isn't perfect but since realizing that I was thinking of someone else I've been working harder to make myself happy in my marriage.
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vibrator. fantasy. or, ashley madison
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