I feel the same way. So many times I said or did the wrong thing. I'm sorry, too.
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One thing life has taught me is that people have short memories. Because of that people are more forgiving than you give them credit for.
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I have one that I think about daily. No way to fix it.
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the first step is to say it to them. then its up to them
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Go find as many as you can and really make amends then sit quietly and give them an opportunity to hear how it was for them when you hurt them without getting defensive. Then don't ever do again what you did to hurt them. That is how to be truly sorry and responsible for your actions.
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^The AA line? really? Just work on making yourself better so you don't repeat the same negative behaviors. What's done is done, and you can let go when you can believe that the person who did those terrible things is no longer you.
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5^ How does working on yourself equal getting drunk? You're a miserable f*** who wants other people to feel just as guilty as you do. "Pretend like none of it happened"??? Hey worm, working on yourself so you don't keep repeating the same negative behaviors is the opposite of avoiding the problem. BTW, I have decent abs and volunteer once a week. It is all ok...FOR ME. And AA is a cult of victimhood.
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Tell them you are sorry for anything you ever said, did or didn't do that hurt someone. I tell anyone I run into these days from my past that I'm sorry if I ever hurt them and I'm not the same person anymore. Most people will totally understand and forgive you. Try it.
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What AA line dickhead? And no, working on youself alone does not help anything. It does not help the people you f***ed over in the past. But I guess if it is easier for you to just pretend like none of it happened so that you don't have to deal with it, then go ahead. Go get drunk too whille you are at it... but hey as long as you have nice abs and volunteer once a month I guess that makes it all ok.
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The "AA line" says to make amends where doing so does not injure others or yourself. You don't go back and bring up stuff that has quieted down when doing it would reopen old wounds. So don't knock the "AA line" when you clearly don't understand it.
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The way to fix it is to give everybody you meet a blow job. Than take off all your clothes, tie yourself to a light pole, and beg everybody who comes by to f*** you in the ass.
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Here's what you do. First, you can't go back and fix it all, so say to yourself every day: I can't go back and start again, but I can start from here and make a new end. Then work hard at not hurting anyone else in life. You're well on your way, hon. Keep it up!
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You had to go through all that to get here, learn from it all and be the best you can be. Today is all you have and let go of the past, tomorrow can be better if you apply the lessons.
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