wow, weird, i could have wrote this. i thought the same thing however i did not follow through with it.
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That is disgusting.
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it is, what's worse is that someone is intruding on my privacy, someone i trusted. i only thought this to get over him, i would never follow thru though.
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Swinging, for me helps until I find a woman that loves me enough to be my only one. Good luck when you are strong enough to begin your search for the one that really loves you.
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you hurt me with all your lies....
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You low self esteem loser. Your going to catch Herpes, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, The Clap, HIV, and HPV because you cannot keep your legs closed.
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I don't think that's a good idea, op. It's not going to make you happy long term.
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^give me a break, it's bs...she is probably ugly and fat. everything is easier said than done. go for her.
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I was a swinger, then a slider, and now a teeter totterer
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i like to shake soda cans on the merry-go-round. teehee
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i did i felt the same way, it's awful like getting off a drug...i just know i would regret something like this and lose my selfworth as well. thanks for making me stoop to this level of thinking, friend
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I am the one that posted the long post 6 up... ugly and fat is all in the eye of the beholder, but I am fairly sure that a 31 inch waist is not fat in most peoples books. as for ugly.. phyical looks can be hated or loved by anyone depending on how they were brought up really. 4 up, even if i am ugly to some poeple on the outside, at least i am not ugly on the inside like you appear to be. and i am just curious how being ugly and fat has anything to do with me being a swinger and getting what I crave from people that are not my primary partner? it maby easier for me to say and do what i wrote then you, but that doesn't make it BS. you it appears are angry that you can't have, or don't know how to have, what i have and am very happy with. You seem bitter and angry that someone coule be so open minded and happy.. maybe you need to be less ugly on the inside and let other people live their wonderful lives without being so mean and jusdgmental. I fell sorry for you honestly, i hope whatever you are doing that isn't working for you, changes and you can be a happier person that isn't such a nay sayer about other people lives
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^stfu
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You're not dealing with it directly, unhealthy. This type of hiding from yourself always comes back with big sharp teeth.
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Start shooting heroin and prostituting. That will ease the pain a lot more than what you are doing now. If that doesn't work, kill yourself.
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It may take the pain away in the moment but Lust can never take the place of knowing someone really loves you . There are too many diseases out there. Why put yourself at risk ? Don't you feel you are worthy of more ?
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Do you Swallow?
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what is with all the nay sayers about swinging? it is just as safe if you protect yourself as hooking up with ANYone else... most swingers i have ever met really look out for their health, and people usually have to be vouched for before they are allowed in any swingers circle. some people are so uninformed.enjoy yourself.. just don't let the fact that someone that doesn't love you, get you down. there are WAY more poeple out there, i was down once with someone that i loved and didn't love me back.. now, i have found someone that i am head over heals in love with. I still swing, he won't or can't give me all the things that i crave, and that is ok with him. he isn't a swinger, but allows me to be.what i am saying is don't waste your time trying to mask feelings for someone that won't love you back. it is a waste of your time,. move on and spend your energy focusing on making YOU happy, not trying to feel less shitty about something you can't have
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^^^Damn, where were you when I was looking for an understandable woman? God, your thinking is awesome! I wholeheartedly agree with your assessment. I also believe when we stifle our sexual desires by keeping them shoved down deep within, it resurfaces and manifests itself in dysfunctional ways again and again. Freud believed it and so did Carl Jung.
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