I agree with the other comment. If he cared even a little bit, he would not want to share you with anyone. This is his way of having his cake and eating it with your permission.
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That is a completely horrid thing for him to say. Dump him and find someone who loves you as you are.
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Swinging breaks down the sanctity of the relationship, leads to nowhere. See? Not worth it. Obviously he is the one who wanted it.. for you to say ok. He played you, sorry.
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I simply cannot believe how many women will agree to do all the disgusting sex games the guys want you to do. If they REALLY loved you they would NEVER ask such a thing!They would respect you, but on the other hand, how can they respect you when you do not respect yourself?Get rid of him and hold out for a decent man.They are out there, just out numbered by all the scummy ones. Keep looking.
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I know plenty of women who brought their husbands to swinging too. That said, swinging is so dangerous to a relationship that it is stupid to do. Just to be clear, tons of women lead to these stupid decisions as well.
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Obviously he was after that girl and played you into this swing thing. So it made it ok to do her and it is your fault for saying yes. He is a loser, and yes women are at fault too for this swing crap.. but in this case, the guy is the jerk and you were not too smart. We all learn lessons every day. You need to learn to dump this guy and do the right thing next time. Best wishes.
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Swinging creates a lot of drama. I was friends with a couple who practiced this lifestyle. Usually swingers have this rule where they don't have sex with other people unless the are together. From what I witnessed, that rule is broken in no time. I had a threesome with this couple and 2 days later, the guy tried to have sex with me when his girlfriend was at the store. I was disgusted and I refused, so he had sex with some other girl instead. His girlfriend (one of my best friends) eventually found out and the relationship was NEVER the same. They only lasted one more year after that incident.
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^ YES! Never do something for your partner if you truely are not comfortable or want to do it, just to please them!!!! Passive, agressive behaviors come out. You'll get pissed and upset with your partner, when your the one who said yes! And same at yourself for doing it. Very unhealthy.
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it is SO FRUSTERATING to see all the people how are nay sayers to swinging... they say.. well the other person OBVIOUSLY doen'st love you if they are willing to f*** or let you f*** other people.ok, to that i say.. WHAT IF... WHAT if the partner you have gives you everything you want in the rest of life, but can't or won't give you some of the things you want in your sex life? what if your female and your male partner doesn't want to get f***en in the ass with a strap-on, but that is the one thing that really gets you really horney? what if your female and your male partner can't provide you with a vagina to lick or fist? what if your partner LOVES you enough to LET you do these things that they can't provide you with.all you people are so closed minded.. grow up, and live a little bit. life and love and sex is NOT the box your parents presented it to you as, stop pretending there is no other way then the way that you were once told things should be. expand your lives a little bit, honestly people
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^ Whoohoo!!!! Exactly.
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Why be a couple then.. nothing is sacred. .. that is what is wrong with the world today. Mindless sex, no intellect.. Fun at first.. but sitting in a rocking chair on the porch when you are old and things don't work anymore.. what do you have then?
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Not all of these swinging horror stories are true. my wife (of 22 years) and I have been in the "lifestyle" for 12 years now. I trust my wife and she trusts me. But back to the OT your husband is not a swinger, he is cheating on you with the emotional attachment. Sex is fun, don't need the baggage.
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^why would you want to have sex with other people....doesnt your wife fulfill you sexually?
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hahahahahaaaaa, my EX, notice I said EX husband and I did the same thing, ended up getting divorced because we loved the couple we swang with more than each other. I actually married the guy and i'm happier than I was.
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ouch!
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^happens all the time...hence why it can be dangerous...really need a Rock bottom foundation of a marriage to explore. Both parties MUST be comfortable and very flexible. And there can be NO doubts about if your partner is the ONE before entering this world.
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You have to be very secure in your current relationship and most of us are NOT to get into that lifestyle
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