PLEASE DELETE MY POSTING ADMINISTRATORS.P L E A S E
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Your a mean b**** for kicking her out. I hope you die from ass cancer. :)
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There's an App for that.
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More info please.
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easy to be bold when someone is down
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^It is, and everyone gets down sometimes. That's another great reason to connect with people around you.
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I have a 2 sisters that I'd kick out too. Sisters can be evil.
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what a douche someone kick him in the nuts!!!
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To the imposter in the above post who says they are me. Please don't try to speak for me. This has been a long and painful situation with so many things said and done.I am sorry for posting it in this forum. My Sister and I are polar opposites and things will be left like they are. If we couldn't fix our relationship in all these years and under these circumstances, it won't be resolved in this forum. Thanks to those of you who really tried to help. I am ashamed that I was so frustrated that I posted it.Admn apparently isn't going to take it out although it is off my log in page. My Sister and I tried so hard for so many years. It just doesn't work. Only thing I can do now is pray for her. The holidays just make the feelings hurt worse. I was the one who got her to the hospital and also arranged for her to get assistance. I did my best. But as usual, my best wasn't good enough.
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OP again...I saw this picture that shows someone very frail with pictures and images all over them and also with a spoon in their mouth trying to carry an egg without dropping it. This is what our relationship is like. Like watching every word you say, every step you take, trying not to upset the other. I wonder if other siblings have this problem. It is so hard to watch everything you say and do and not feel free to be yourself. Does anyone understand what I am saying ?
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I do understand what you are saying and I feel that you need not feel any shame for posting this. You are being real and that is how we heal. Your sister will likely die of cancer in her bitterness and self absorption but maybe... because you loved her enough and loved yourself enough not to allow her to abuse you or her, she will feel in her last moments and be able to die with things resolved. I truly hope that for both of you, But if it does not come to pass know this... you did what was needed and right, you did what was real. And this post will help others though you may never know it so don't be ashamed. be who you are. You know this is the lesson and so now it is time. Take care OP
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OP again. To whomever wrote the above comment. Thank you for caring enough to share your profound thoughts with me. Tears are now flowing. I really needed to cry. What you and another poster shared is truly helping me tonight. Sincere thanks to both of you.
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If your sister is dying it will help you greatly to get a book called, 'On Death and Dying' by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross. This book explains the process of dying. It will help you come to terms with your sister and, I believe, will help you find compassion for her in her last days. Best wishes, my friend.
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Thank you, I will definately get that book. Someone else mentioned that book a few weeks ago. They said it would help me understand all this better, Thank you,
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My older sister got a lung transplant a year ago. She has been malicious her entire life, even after her surgery. I want to send her a pack of cigarettes. And I don't feel guilty about it.
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I totally get what you are saying and why you did what you did. Part of what contributes to getting sick is being fake and not dealing with the real problems. Getting cancer is and should be a huge wake up call that something is not working and it's time to look within and make some changes and heal. Cancer is a healing crisis. And frankly, if the person is going to use getting sick to be further abusive then they should be kicked to the curb. Go ahead and call us b****es and say we are kicking people when they are down but shit - we all have to help ourselves, take responsibility, be humble and try our damdest to heal. Being sick is not a license to be a tyrant.
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^^being a tyrant does not give you a license to have no heart for someone with an illness which may kill them.
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I am the OP. I tried 3 times to delete my post but it won't let me. I should never have posted this. It is what happened but I didn't need to share it. Administrators, please delete my post. I was wrong in sharing something so personal.
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4^Sometimes it is most loving and helpful to a person like that, if you kick them to the curb. totally agree. ^OP, chill, admin don't know you're really the OP asking anyway.
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DO NOT DELETE THIS POST. OP here, I had a change of heart and this should remain here for all to see that I made a big mistake. Sis, will you, can you ever forgive me?
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