i am on your side op. i believe in it. i am submissive to my lover. he takes care of me too. no abuse involved, oh but how i love to get on my knees for him. no people i grew up normal. he doesn't judge me no matter what condition i am in, i hve givin him my body and soul
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Very cool. I was your age when I discovered that on rare occasions(about once a year) I like to sleep with another guy.
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Well, suck his dick
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OP...and the rest of the year you sleep with the same guys?
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This is BS. So who you are is a sex slave and it has taken you 48 years to get the courage to be this? First off, it takes courage to be self empowered, not dominated. Secondly if it has taken you this long to conclude that you like having a sex master then you need to get some mental help. Finally, your 'master' doesn't love you. No slave owner does because love is not about power and domination over another. You sound completely mind as well as body controlled. Not to be mean but please wake up now and get a spine. You will only have courage when you have self mastery and only have love when it is given and taken through mutual sharing in as much balance as possible.
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^ just doesn't get it. I have a submissive that I love off the charts and she loves me. It is a marvelous power exchange. She serves me, I cherish her and we are as happy as can be. For those not in the lifestyle, they just don't see it for what it is. I have been in it for more than a decade and it is the only place the two of us are happy. CONGRATS
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Being someone's pet or slave can be a beautiful thing. Some of us live to be the person who lifts another up, the one they confide in, the one they cherish. We want nothing more than to make that other person happy and give them their every desire. It's a trust thing, I like knowing that I will do anything in my power to make him know how much I care while he cherishs, takes care of me and loves me in a way no one else can.
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I am the original poster of this secret. To those that are happy for me, I say 'Thank you, I am happy for me too' To the people that don't understand the lifestyle I've chosen, please, don't even begin to, as it appears you've already made up your mind that everyone should be the same. To the woman who was forced into slavery, I'm very sorry that happened to you, however, don't judge every M/s relationship from your experience. I happened by chance to meet my Master and have given myself to him willingly and completely.
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i am very new to being a slave, I have been a Ma'am for many many years, but,had NEVER met another with a MORE dom personality then myself. Now that I am serving a Master, I finally understand the NEED. Im always saddened when TROLLS hide behind BDSM to find their victims, it gives the *lifestyle* such a bad name. We give UP our POWER by choice, thats THE EXCITEMENT. were NOT a bunch of stupid uneducated people, who dont KNOW any better!!!!! it is a CHOICE.. just say'n
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Misinformed? 'BS' person here... my information comes straight from experience idiot of being a child brought up and tortured in these kinds of situations. My master was an adult and I was a child - and yes it DOES happen to kids. You are a f***ing liar to say it doesn't. But this is what it's all about though right? CONTROL. You put this shit up to perpetuate the act of one human controlling another whether it be 'consentual' (as if a person with a mind who had not been conditioned in it would consent to that) or by force. So stop lying as if this is some sort of innocent thing that only happens in private with consenting adults. again... BULLSHIT
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^i kind of agree....how can you have this terrible want for control and then not use it all the time over the people you love?
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^^ Get a grip, I never said kids should be involved. So you were abused by your messed up parents. I specifically said kids should be shielded. Children can not give consent. So, if one parent has regular sex with another does that mean that all parents are screwing their kids? Your parents were sick, that doesn't mean adults to participate are. Judge abusive parents, not those who shield kids and keep this to themselves.
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i cant do that i am scared he will find out im talking to someone else :( this site is anonymous so at least he doesnt know what comments i make kwim?
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There are books and web sites that allow you to gather information and post questions. Collarme is popular if you are looking for someone but it is not as informational as fetlife. I hope this helps.
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^^^I just went on collarme and fetlife. Those sites are lame. I checked the state I live in now and the last one I was in for years. Neither state has anyone posted.
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slavery gets shit done.
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^^ That couple with the collar, is NOT the usual relationship. The huge majority of couples keep the power exchange more subtle. Having a submissive call one Master at all times is on the extreme side. Very few couples to this and I find it a problem. For myself and my submissive, we keep it to our private time and use normal names with the kids around. Don't judge by extremes.
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^she even said their was m/s "training" that they do....she was someone elses slave for over a year before he handed her over to her new master..... i will admit i do find this fascinating in a really twisted sort of way....unless there are kids involved and then i think its just plain wrong!
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for the master who keeps answering...i would like my husband to dominate me but i am scared to ask him...he has told me before he isnt into that kind of thing. what should i do?
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You will find your servant is your master...ohhh, you'll be wrapped around my finger.
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^^ yours is a problem that many have. Set up a single use email, post it and I will give you some suggestions based on your specifics. Be careful, there are many trolls and pretenders who may try to take advantage of your interests. Remember Safe Sane Consensual.
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last 2 ^ BSBSBSBSBSBSBSBSBSBSBSBSBSBSBSBSBSBSBSBULLSHIT
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i had a client once who "sold" her daughters virginity to some of her m/s friends for some kind of fUcKeD up "scene" they were doing. honestly i think that sHiT is sick.....so my question is do you subject your children to that type of lifestyle? or do you hide it from your kids? if so why would you do that if it was a truly good/healthy lifestyle?
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^ 2 Not BS it is my life and I am happy with it. She is happy and loves that I guide and protect her. You, Mr. or Ms. BS are just misinformed. Try looking on the dozen internet sites that promote the lifestyle or the book Screw the Roses Give Me the Thorns. You are sadly misinformed. One above. Living the life style around children is just like how you live your sex life. Be discrete. Do you do oral sex on your partner with the kids in the room? No. Do you leave porn sites up on your computer for the kids to see? No. You keep it where it belongs, out of the sight of the kids. Safe Sane Consensual is the mantra. Now don't be so judgmental. Live and let live.
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^from what i know m/s is more than just sex, and THAT was the part i was referring too. i have one woman that i know who wears a collar 24 hours a day and has to report everything she does to he master....when she changes her tampons....what kind of food she can cook....how she can discipline her child. her entire life is mapped out for her and she has no say whatsoever....how can a child NOT pick up on that kind if shIt??? if my mom walked around in a collar saying yes master to my dad every time he asked for a beer i'm pretty sure at some point i would figure it out....you can't be a slave PART TIME so how exactly do you keep it from your children?
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^from what i know m/s is more than just sex, and THAT was the part i was referring too. i have one woman that i know who wears a collar 24 hours a day and has to report everything she does to he master....when she changes her tampons....what kind of food she can cook....how she can discipline her child.---->
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her entire life is mapped out for her and she continued-----> she has no say whatsoever....how can a child NOT pick up on that kind if shIt??? if my mom walked around in a collar saying yes master to my dad every time he asked for a beer i'm pretty sure at some point i would figure it out....you can't be a slave PART TIME so how exactly do you keep it from your children?
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