The one you have loved all your life is the one to be with...period. Your wife deserves a man who feels the way you feel about this other woman.
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How you handle YOUR emotions is you go and see a therapist to figure out what is at the core of you marrying one person but loving someone else and then dealing with yourself accordingly. Honesty, integrity, responsibility. It's not a black and white matter of leave your wife for the one you love. But you do have to be honest as well as honor the commitments you made until they are mutually ended. You don't handle these emotions by going off and sleeping with the other and violating your marriage, you don't handle these emotions by pretending they are not there either. The only way out is through.
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how would you feel if you found out your wife was in love with someone else too. or is it you just love the feeling of longing for something you dont have.
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Billey, Why ?
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is that you Mark?
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i feel for you, good luck.
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You handle your emotions by realizing it is not love. It is obsessive infatuation. Go fantasize while playing with yourself and keep your marriage.
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^ I would believe what you are saying, except this guy say's all his life...usually a sign of real love. How long have you really been in love with this other woman? Details...help to understand what emotions you are going through.
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If my husband were feeling this way i'd want him to tell me. It isn't fair to you and it isn't fair to her. Be honest. Do some soul searching and find out what you really want. Could you wake up every morning without your wife? Is your feelings for this other woman real? Get to the bottom of it before more years pass and hurt has more time to grow. Again, be honest. It's the hardest thing to do but it's the only way.
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