Try telling the person to his or her face. Nothing impulsive about that.
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Jimmy ? Sounds like you ! You said you loved me way to quick, it felt strange to me and maybe it pushed me away too. Sorry
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Tourette syndrome? Son of a b****! cock sucking, motherf***er! OOPS! Excuse me.
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Impulsive like marrying a complete stranger? Anything like that?
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if you were my lover, which i think he may have something like that, you can't help who you love no matter what their negatives are, well at least in my case. of course i would embrace you and i am sure you will go through another phase too.
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"had an undiagnosed health issue that caused impulsiveness"? posted with an alcohol cartoon? Are you a drunk by any chance? Sorry but that is not a health condition, it's a choice... but the pathological lying that so many drunks can't seem toshake... maybe that is an illness? I doubt it.
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well K, maybe you should tell him the truth. sometimes the truth is all your mate really wants. people are more understanding then you think, we all have problems, but lying only make thing worst.
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If you really love him...you got to do better than this girl...as far as reaching out is concerned! Any and all fears are hindrances to love. This is a start, but call him, write him, text him...something. And forgive yourself and him...move forward step by step. ~ K, but not the OP
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you learn from mistakes and pain. Learn anything that will stick yet?
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hey OP are you going to try?
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BS OP. If you don't care about our stupid comments then why are you insulted and feel the need to respond?
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^3 any identifying clue for the man you are trying to reach or would that be crossing the line?
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haha I don't care about any of your negative opinions. However, when you make Medical Presumptions on my untold secret post. I have a right to clear that up. I don't have bpd. I do this for his benefit, not yours. In case he is reading this. Clue.... well we met approx. 2 yrs ago (Sept). A verse from a song from when we were last together. "I don't want to come back down from this cloud; it's taking me all this time to find out what I need".
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i was just diagosed this year.
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2^A recent episode of Criminal Minds.
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^ well, what ever it is was, maybe its' just as well. I released those thoughts and I will be okay what ever the outcome. Thank You for this site.
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Undiagnosed mental health issue. Still just an excuse for bad behaviour and instability.Move on from the person you let down.
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Borderline personality disorder causes impulsive behaviour--again and again.
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I know that you posted this because you are scared to tell the person directly, and you wanted to get it off of your chest. The problem is it dosen't really do either of you any good. You are going to get some helpful comments, but mostly you have just made yourself a target for the negativity and nastiness that is so prevalent on this site. Buck up and find the courage to talk to the one you love. You never know...they may just understand and forgive you...
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^You know what? Sometimes it's better to just move on after you've become "stable". Soometimes you've hurt people so much they can not forgive and have also moved on. It's not negative...it's called getting on with your life.
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I am the op. I knew I would get some negative comments. I don't care about those people. The picture is a joke, not an alkie. I am scared to tell him, I am female. I think he had some mental issues too. I need him to contact me. I think he reads these.
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op here again. Not bpd. save your stupid medical opinions for someone who is dim enough to believe. He's hurt me too; because of his issues, I can only try to understand and forgive. I do forgive you.
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